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Lisa Ling Asks: Is It Possible to Be Both Gay and Christian?
Christian Post ^ | 03/09/2011 | Lillian Kwon

Posted on 03/09/2011 12:10:53 PM PST by SeekAndFind

It's a conversation that has never gone away, but on Tuesday night, journalist Lisa Ling catapulted the debate on Christianity and homosexuality back into the spotlight.

"Pray the Gay Away?" was the title of the latest episode of "Our America" with Ling.

The longtime television journalist, whose new series is on OWN (Oprah Winfrey Network), sought to find answers to a question that continues to be asked today: Is it possible to be gay and Christian at the same time?

For 17 students at The Naming Project's summer camp, it is.

"Everyone in this camp has heard many times over being gay is a sin, almost as though it was a broken record," the Rev. Jay Wiesner, pastoral director at The Naming Project, told Ling. "Our hope is to be able to offer a place for kids to become at peace with you they are."

Chelsea Shamy, 19, remembered being rejected at her church and at school after coming out as a lesbian. But she is convinced that God accepts her the way she is.

"I just felt so rejected because I know that's not what God is. God is love and that's not what they were sharing at all," she said on the show.

"I don't want to force it down their throats that what they've learned is hateful, but I'm just trying to do it through example ... and showing them that I'm a good Christian girl that loves God and loves people."

Later, she was voted as the first gay prom queen her senior year.

Christine Sneeringer doesn't believe homosexuality is compatible with the Christian faith. She left homosexuality at the age of 32.

"I know there's a lot of people that say you can [be both gay and Christian]," she told Ling. "I think it's a misinterpretation of Scripture to say that the Bible would bless and affirm homosexual relationships. To me, it's just really clear.

"I've lived to try to live in accordance with my faith."

Alan Chambers, president of Exodus International, may be more well-known for leaving homosexuality. He heads what claims to be the largest worldwide ministry to those struggling with unwanted same-sex attraction.

He is married to his wife and has two children. Though he admitted that he still struggles with same-sex attraction and has to be careful with what he looks at on the Internet or at the movies, he noted that the same goes for any other married man who has to be cautious.

In his interview featured on "Our America," Chambers rejected the common accusation that he is denying who he really is.

"I'm denying the power that those things had over me," he asserted. "People say once you're gay, you're always gay; you can't break from that. That's not true."

In a blog post Tuesday, Chambers maintained that individuals can and do experience change. But eliminating attractions to a person of the same gender isn't necessary to living a Christian life.

He highlighted, "Diminishing or elimination of same-sex attraction can occur to varying degrees, but Exodus does not believe that an absence of same-sex attractions is necessary in order to live a life in harmony with biblical principles. Like I said during the interview, God wants our hearts more than he wants anything else. When He has our heart then and only then can He begin the transformation process."

"Change is possible," he added.

Though that change may not necessarily be a complete elimination of same-sex desires, for Christians, Chambers noted, "change is ultimately about embracing a new identity."

"This new identity is rooted in what God says is His best plan for individuals, humanity and sexuality."

That's the identity that Ethan Martin, an Exodus student, has assumed.

"Sexuality," he told the show, "is a part of our identity ... but it is not the core of our identity."

"My identity is now in Christ."

Martin clarified that even as a homosexual, God loved him. But, he posed, "Did I think that that (homosexuality) was God's best for me? And did I think that that was really what Christianity was about? No, I don't think so."


TOPICS: Current Events; General Discusssion; Moral Issues; Religion & Culture
KEYWORDS: christian; gay; homosexualagenda; homosexuality; lisaling; moralabsolutes
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1 posted on 03/09/2011 12:10:58 PM PST by SeekAndFind
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To: SeekAndFind

The answer: No. If you believe in Christ and what the Bible says about immoral homosexual acts then you believe it is a sexual sin.


2 posted on 03/09/2011 12:13:42 PM PST by Halls (Jesus is my Lord and Savior)
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To: SeekAndFind

All sorts of sinners are Christians. The thing is to repent of the sin and not to embrace it as some perverse form of ‘diversity’.


3 posted on 03/09/2011 12:13:49 PM PST by MeganC (Soli Deo Gloria)
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To: SeekAndFind

No. Sex outside of marriage is a sin. Marriage is between a man and a woman. Catch 22 or God’s plan. Believe it or not.


4 posted on 03/09/2011 12:14:09 PM PST by DManA
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To: SeekAndFind

Issue is repentence, same as any other sin or inclination to sin.


5 posted on 03/09/2011 12:14:36 PM PST by Mount Athos (A Giant luxury mega-mansion for Gore, a Government Green EcoShack made of poo for you)
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To: SeekAndFind

6 posted on 03/09/2011 12:15:12 PM PST by KC_Lion (America is on the Brink of War with itself, and no one seems to notice or care.)
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Is it possible to SIN and be a Christian?


7 posted on 03/09/2011 12:15:47 PM PST by evets (beer)
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To: Halls
See post three. All Christians are sinners in one way or another: overt sins, mental attitude sins etc. etc.
8 posted on 03/09/2011 12:16:45 PM PST by fish hawk (R. Emmett Tyrrell: Liberalism is dead. What we see now is "soft Nazis-ism".)
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To: SeekAndFind

Can a person be a poodle plooker and Christian? Didn’t think so.


9 posted on 03/09/2011 12:17:33 PM PST by CodeToad (Islam needs to be banned in the US and treated as a criminal enterprise.)
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To: SeekAndFind
Is It Possible to Be Both Gay and Christian?

Yes. Just as you can be both a sinner of any stripe and a Christian. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone. Homosexual activities are intrinsically disordered and should be refrained from (as we should all refrain from sin)... but you can be gay and Christian.

Can you be a gay apologist and Christian? I say no... no one can champion what is against God's Will and still claim to be for God.

10 posted on 03/09/2011 12:19:04 PM PST by pgyanke (Republicans get in trouble when not living up to their principles. Democrats... when they do.)
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To: evets

A repentent sinner, yes, of course.
An unrepentent sinner, no. In fact, if you’re not repentent, you’re not a convert.


11 posted on 03/09/2011 12:19:19 PM PST by MrB (The difference between a Humanist and a Satanist - the latter knows whom he's working for)
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To: SeekAndFind
Breaking news for all you Christians reading this thread: Today, you are going to sin. (you probably will sin more than once too) The good news is, you are still saved. It has a name: GRACE
12 posted on 03/09/2011 12:19:23 PM PST by fish hawk (R. Emmett Tyrrell: Liberalism is dead. What we see now is "soft Nazis-ism".)
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To: SeekAndFind

Hysterical! The Pharisees are everywhere these days.

Meanwhile 21 priests have been suspended for predation on young boys. Are they Christians?


13 posted on 03/09/2011 12:19:45 PM PST by SaxxonWoods (Throw away your papers, blow up your TV...and set yourself free.)
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To: fish hawk
Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, 10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God. 11And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God.
14 posted on 03/09/2011 12:22:07 PM PST by pastorbillrandles
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To: evets
Is it possible to SIN and be a Christian?

Yes, of course it is - so long as we don't TRY to sin, so long as we recognize the harm sin does to us and our souls. We are humans, we are fallen, and as such we have a tendency towards sin. But a good Christian works their way out of it.

Repentance and reconciliation is key. This is why, as a Catholic, the confessional is so important.

Regarding gays, I believe the rule is, to be attracted to a member of the same sex is one thing - this may or may not be a voluntary emotion. However, ACTING on that attraction, and participating in gay sex IS a sin. (Not to mention, no surprise, very un-hygienic. If your personal activities are inherently un-hygienic, there's a good chance it's considered sinful...)

15 posted on 03/09/2011 12:22:23 PM PST by Yossarian (Heartfelt thanks, Tea Party Patriots! Despite slander and muck, you pulled through!)
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To: SeekAndFind
Is It Possible to Be Both Gay and Christian?

Yes, most Christians I know are ineed happy, cheerful folks.

Oh! You meant to ask, "Can one reject God's natural order and perform abominable acts that God made a capital crime...and still be a follower of His Son?"

Is that a rhetorical question?
16 posted on 03/09/2011 12:22:33 PM PST by LearsFool ("Thou shouldst not have been old, till thou hadst been wise.")
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To: SeekAndFind

you can be gay, as long as you don’t do gay.


17 posted on 03/09/2011 12:23:01 PM PST by Daveinyork
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To: Halls

“The answer: No. If you believe in Christ and what the Bible says about immoral homosexual acts then you believe it is a sexual sin.”

The answer: Yes, just like it is possible to be a murderer, thief, adulterer, or any other type of sinner.


18 posted on 03/09/2011 12:26:27 PM PST by TheThirdRuffian (Nothing to see here. Move along.)
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Lisa Ling asks: Is It Possible to Be Both Gay and Christian?
Evets asks: Is It Possible to Be Both Lisa Ling and Christian?
19 posted on 03/09/2011 12:26:46 PM PST by evets (beer)
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To: Yossarian

Exactly! I like beer, but I’m not going to marry it.


20 posted on 03/09/2011 12:27:52 PM PST by evets (beer)
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