Matthew 26:24
Mark 14:21
Luke 22:22
and
Matthew 18:6
Mark 9:42
Luke 17:2
Take your own pick.
The topic was not apostasy but who determines faith, God or man.
Do you think Judas has a "choice"? LOL!
and Matthew 18:6...Mark 9:42...Luke 17:2
It is debatable what the writers mean by σκανδαλίζω (scandalizo), the Greek word which is found in those verses. The KJV says "offend" rather than [make them] "stumble".
At any rate, obviously the synoptic writers had a different opinion from Paul who said "So then it does not depend on the man who wills or the man who runs, but on God who has mercy."[Romans 9:16], fwiw.