“She was a very special woman ...” — so I take it your opinion has changed from “just an ordinary Jewish girl”?
She was a very special woman ... When anyone fulfills the destiny on their life, that which God called them to, we often view as special. Moses, Abraham, Paul, Esther, David, etc., etc.
John the Baptist received the Holy Spirit when six months in the womb. NO ONE else experienced that. And spent his whole life in the desert preparing to be used to ‘prepare The Way’. I would say that is obedience supreme and very very special. Of course, that’s what ‘man’ does - assign a calling on how special a person is.
BUT that is not the way HIS KINGDOM (supernatural) operates, that is man/this world’s (natural) way. God knows what man is like, so He says.. Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean NOT on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil.
Evil - assigning to The Most Holy Pure God, the things of man/this world. God is no respecter of person, man is. His Ways are higher than ours. Hence, man made teaching/tradition do not exist in HIS KINGDOM. Hence, Mary and John the Baptist are who God’s says they are, His servants.
However, we should not think anyone is more special - the ‘call’ to establish His Kingdom ‘for us’ is special - His love for us - not the one who is assigned to that call.
Can not an ordinary Jewish girl be a special woman ?