I've had the mind-set for years now...that I can only really truly be responsible for myself. Period. I can nudge, pray, and explain to others...but in the end...it's their choice.
"Peering thru a glass darkly"....is a favorite Scripture of mine...because I have had glimpses of total understanding, when I totally "get it"...and then poof, I struggle.
I always keep in mind...that the road to hell is wide and well-lighted. And it doesn't have signs saying, "This way to Hell!!"
While the road to Heaven is a narrow road...and not as well trodden.
But many DO travel it, and lend a helping hand to those who are struggling along the Way.