Just to move things along: (note paragraph 1257 may be of particular use to you, RnMomof7, but as I believe, NaturalLaw pointed out, a thorough reading of catechetical writings, in context, is required for true and complete understanding of the teaching in question. Here, for example, reading paragraph 846 only would lead to, at best, an incomplete understanding of the doctrine of Baptism. It should be read and understood in the context of paragraphs 1257-1261)
http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p123a9p3.htm#846
http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/p2s2c1a1.htm#1257
Do all baptized babies that die in infancy go to heaven? Do all unbaptized infants that die go to heaven? That is the question and the answer is????????