My wife and I went to catholic school for 12 years. We haven’t been to church since. But we raised six great kids who went to Baptist after-school studies. So it’s all good.
You can both come back to the Catholic Church at any time. Maybe there is a class for returning Catholics in your area.
Our church does one entitled: “Catholics Can Come Home Again.”
There is also a returning Catholic network that you can do a search for. You will identify with many of the stories there.