I was just over there and I read it as an insult.
Asking someone what they do in the military would sound something like this: "What do you do in the military?"
That is the problem, you think.
The point is, Irisshlass, it had NOTHING to do with the topic at hand and was thus a personal attack.
Try defending your position with facts and not looking for ancillary off-topic items to redirect the discussion.
You did not hurt my feelings but you did damage your reputation.