Not true as the LDS religion states? If you’re LDS you might want to check your “sacred books” ...
I am LDS, and I am fairly well acquainted with our standard works (the Bible, Book of Mormon, Doctrine & Covenants, and the Pearl of Great Price). I have not found in them any hint that a man can determine whether his wife is resurrected.
If you have found such a doctrine in the LDS scriptures, please provide a reference.