>>Maybe consider going once a month to the church that is further away and saving up your donations to give to them instead?
True. No matter how much they plead for “pledges” and donations in this recession, it has stayed the same for 3 years now LOL.
I cant stop giving my measly donations because I figured I’m giving to God, not to the parish.
The most recent time I did NOT give my $$$ for mass when a LESBIAN was giving her speech about her gay son, which turned into a lecture, not a sermon. I went out, found a bum across the street and gave it to him.