SOUNDS good. I’m a bit skeptical that it’s thoroughly true for some folks.
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Oh, the white hankie thing is merely a short-hand, a symbol for a LOT of INSTITUTIONALIZED ritual and hoopla as well as a bit of fun tweaking at those overly obsessed with such rituals as seem to go with the personage of Mary and a lot of other personages in the INSTITUTION.
A couple of decades ago an elderly lady asked a priest, "Is it true that anything a Saint has touched is a 'third class relic'?"
The priest answered, correctly, "Yes, that's true. Anything a saint has touched is a relic of the third class."
"Well," said the dowager, triumphantly, "Mother Cabrini spanked me more than once!"
As for the other, we put it out there, we can't make 'em pick it up. You know what Tallulah Bankhead said when asked to use the word "horticulture" in a sentence:
"You can lead a horticulture, but you can't make her think."