[livius]

I have seen that in the families of Orthodox priests. It’s an enormous strain for all concerned, not just the priest, and there were a lot of seriously dysfunctional families among them.

[wombtotomb]

While I know this example does not pertain to this directly, it may be wise to consider it in a vocation;

You cannot serve 2 masters, you will love one and despise the other, you cannot serve God and mammon.