I would add that being in a “natural family,” so to speak, is an antidote to the oversexed culture. When a girl has changed little brothers’ diapers, how interesting is male nudity? When boys have been around breastfeeding for years, are they going to get worked up over some pop-tart’s bosom?
Pioneer life, as it were - it’s all just survival.
I like your analysis of family life. My older girls had to change diapers too (and they hated it.)
Due to medication I was taking I could not breastfeed, but all my children who have my grandkids have breastfed. So I still must have done something right.