[Antoninus]

And, I’m not in the mood to discuss this any deeper as it will go no where...and I have a meeting in 2 minutes with the priest I work for.

Your post explains about 3/4 of your problem. I'm willing to bet the priest you work for is rather similar to this so-called priest profiled in this article.

The Church will be much better off when all such men retire and are safely out of circulation. Their "reverse catechesis" has done tremendous harm to the faithful over the past 40 years.

[jilliane]

Grossly judgmental and wrong.