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Responsible Parenthood in a Birth Control Culture, Part One [Open]
http://www.catholicexchange.com/2008/08/11/113262/ ^ | August 11, 2008 | Fr. James Farfaglia

Posted on 08/21/2008 6:08:08 PM PDT by Salvation

Responsible Parenthood in a Birth Control Culture, Part One

August 11th, 2008 by Fr. James Farfaglia

You may be surprised to learn that prior to 1930 every Christian denomination agreed in their opposition to artificial birth control. In 1930, the Anglican Church, motivated by increasing social pressures, stated that artificial birth control could be allowed in some circumstances. Shortly thereafter the Anglicans gave in, allowing contraception. Since then, all other Protestant denominations followed the example of the Church of England. Today, the Catholic Church stands alone in opposition to artificial birth control. However, even though the Catholic Church affirms that artificial birth control is intrinsically evil, the majority of Catholics in America completely rejects and ignores the Church’s teaching on procreation.

The first cries for change within the Catholic Church came about in the late 1950’s and the early 1960’s with the availability of the birth control pill. In July of 1968, Pope Paul VI published an encyclical letter Humanae Vitae (On Human Life) which reaffirmed the constant teaching of the Catholic Church that artificial birth control is intrinsically evil. The encyclical was confronted by a massive revolt within the Catholic Church and it is believed that 96% of Catholics in this country completely reject Humanae Vitae.

Why does the Catholic Church affirm that artificial birth control is intrinsically evil? The reason is founded on this principle: every marital act must keep together “the inseparable connection, established by God, which man on his own initiative may not break, between the unitive significance and the procreative significance which are both inherent to the marriage act” (Pope Paul VI, Humanae Vitae, 12).

This fundamental principle contained in Humanae Vitae is true because the nature of sexual intercourse, which is both life-giving (pro-creative) and love-giving (unitive), reflects the plan of God for marriage. A man and a woman must not intervene to separate their fertility from their bodily union. To do so is to disrupt the plan of God for marriage, sexuality, and married love. Therefore, the Church’s teaching is not only affirmed by Divine law, but by natural law as well.

Sexual pleasure within marriage becomes unnatural, and even harmful to the spouses, when it is used in a way that deliberately excludes the basic purpose of sex, which is procreation. God’s gift of sex must not be abused by frustrating its natural end — procreation.

weddinghands.jpgHowever, this does not mean that married couples only have sexual intercourse when they want to conceive a child. Mutual love or the good of the spouses, one of the three purposes of marriage, indicates that sex is good, sex is holy, and that the sexual union between the spouses enhances, in a very deep way, the intimate love between husband and wife. Nevertheless, we must keep in mind that the three purposes of marriage, the good of the spouses, the procreation of children, and the education of children, are equal and form one single entity. The first purpose of marriage is not superior to the other two.

The Catholic Church continues to affirm that every conjugal act must be open to the transmission of life. The Catholic Church continues to affirm that all forms of artificial birth control are intrinsically evil. However, the Catholic Church does teach that there is a moral or ethical way to regulate births. The moral way to regulate the procreation of children is through the use of Natural Family Planning.

Humanae Vitae explains this clearly with these words:

If therefore there are well-grounded reasons for spacing births, arising from the physical or psychological condition of husband or wife, or from external circumstances, the Church teaches that married people may then take advantage of the natural cycles immanent in the reproductive system and engage in marital intercourse only during those times that are infertile, thus controlling birth in a way which does not in the least offend the moral principles which we have just explained” (Pope Paul VI, Humanae Vitae, 16).

However, since Natural Family Planning can only be used for serious and legitimate reasons, what constitutes serious and legitimate reasons?

Humanae Vitae and years later, Pope John Paul II’s teachings on marriage, list four reasons: physical, economic, psychological and social conditions.

Regarding the physical reason for using Natural Family Planning, one example could be the situation where the health of the mother does not allow her to have more children for a definite or even an indefinite period of time. An economic reason may be that a husband lost his job and cannot responsibly afford the cost of bringing another child into the world until he can get back on his feet again. A psychological reason may involve the inability of a mother or a father to properly handle a larger family. Finally, there can be social conditions, such as a time of war, famine, natural disaster, or persecution that may indicate that a husband and wife should wait before they bring another life into the world.

“With regard to physical, economic, psychological and social conditions, responsible parenthood is exercised by those who prudently and generously decide to have more children, and by those who, for serious reasons and with due respect to moral precepts, decide not to have additional children for either a certain or an indefinite period of time” (Pope Paul VI, Humanae Vitae, 10).

Since there are serious and legitimate reasons that permit married couples to use Natural Family Planning, married couples need to be aware that hidden forms of selfishness could cause them to use Natural Family Planning for inappropriate reasons. As a priest, I am beginning to understand that some very good people are falling into this trap. In part two, I will discuss these inappropriate reasons and the erroneous reasoning behind them.

 
Father James Farfaglia is Pastor of St. Helena of the True Cross of Jesus Catholic Church in Corpus Christi, Texas. Originally from Ridgefield, CT, Father has founded and developed apostolates for the Catholic Church in Spain, Italy, Mexico, Canada and throughout the United States. He may be reached by e-mail at jficthus@gmail.com.


TOPICS: Apologetics; Catholic; History; Theology
KEYWORDS: catholic; catholiclist; contraception; humanaevitae
Continuing the discussion on contraception. Open thread.
1 posted on 08/21/2008 6:08:08 PM PDT by Salvation
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2 posted on 08/21/2008 6:10:09 PM PDT by Salvation (<a href="http://www.universalis.com/20080821/vespers.htm">)
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To: All
Responsible Parenthood in a Birth Control Culture, Part One [Open]

Humanae Vitae and True Sexual Freedom — Part 6 of 6 [Open]
Contraception v. Natural Family Planning — Part 5 of 6 [Open]
Sex Speaks: True and False Prophets — Part 4 of 6 [Open]
Contraception and the Language of the Body — Part 3 of 6 [Open]
Does Contraception Foster Love? — Part 2 of 6 [Open]
Contraception and Cultural Chaos — Part 1 of 6 [Open]


Priests still suffering from effects of Humanae Vitae dissenters, Vatican cardinal says (Must read!)
"Provoking reflection" (Contrasting views on Humanae Vitae)
Humanae Vitae The Year of the Peirasmòs - 1968
Catholics to Pope: Lift the Birth Control Ban

[OPEN] The Vindication of Humanae Vitae
Catholic Clergy Challenge Colleagues to Reacquaint Themselves and Their People with Humanae Vitae
White House proposes wide "conscience clause" on abortion, contraception
THE EX CATHEDRA STATUS OF THE ENCYCLICAL "HUMANAE VITAE" [Catholic Caucus]
“A degrading poison that withers life”
Australia Study: 70 Percent of Women Seeking Abortions Used Contraception

[Fr. Thomas Euteneuer] In Persona Christi: The Priest and Contraception

A Challenging Truth, Part Two: The Day the Birth Control Died
A Challenging Truth, Part One: How Birth Control Works
Ten Challenges for the Pro-Life Movement in 2008
The concept of the "intrinsically evil"
Pope Tells Pharmacists Not to Dispense Drugs With 'Immoral Purposes'

Massive Study Finds the Pill Significantly Increases Cancer Risk if Used more than Eight Years
Birth Control Pill Creates Blood Clot Causing Death of Irish Woman
Seminarians Bring Church’s Teaching on Contraception, Sexuality to YouTube
Abortion and Contraception: Old Lies
History of Catholic teaching on Contraception

Pope: Legislation "Supporting Contraception and Abortion is Threatening the Future of Peoples"
Contraception: Why It's Wrong
On Fox News Fearless HLI Priest Takes on Sean Hannity (may be indebted for saving his soul)
VIDEO - SEAN HANNITY vs REV. THOMAS EUTENEUER (must see!)
The Early Church Fathers on Contraception - Catholic/Orthodox Caucus

Pope on divine love vs. erotic love
Conjugal Love and Procreation: God's Design
Being fruitful [Evangelicals and contraception]

3 posted on 08/21/2008 6:11:50 PM PDT by Salvation (<a href="http://www.universalis.com/20080821/vespers.htm">)
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To: Salvation

Bttt. Here in the semi-rural south - this was all farm country until 20 years ago or so - I’m much more likely to meet Baptist or Pentecostal folks who believe children are an unmixed blessing than Catholics. Of course, I don’t get out all that much, and some people with 1 or 2 or 3 children simply didn’t have any more, through no action of their own.


4 posted on 08/21/2008 6:27:41 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Obama: Can't kill the innocent fast enough, can't free the guilty soon enough!~ Diana in WI)
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To: Tax-chick; Salvation
Guess what? Fr. Euteneur is going to be at our Planned Murder Clinic this PM and I'm going to be there.

Does this make me a pro-life groupie?

Eew Eew eew! I'm SEW essited!

5 posted on 08/22/2008 5:30:46 AM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: Mad Dawg

I’m jealous! I hope it’s a WOW event for all!


6 posted on 08/22/2008 5:46:59 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Obama: Can't kill the innocent fast enough, can't free the guilty soon enough!~ Diana in WI)
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To: Mad Dawg

when I was in school we had a priest for life visit us and our weekly treck to the local abortion mill. We prayed, he exorcised the building and it was closed in less than a year. I still get chills thinking about it.


7 posted on 08/22/2008 9:34:26 AM PDT by mockingbyrd (official Mad Dawg groupie.)
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To: mockingbyrd; Tax-chick
So, as usual, I was late. I zipped up in the bicycle lane on my scooter and before I had my helmet off was joining in the 4th sorrowful mystery.

Then we prayed the joyful mysteries. after each decade Fr Tom said some prayer thanking Jesus Mary and Joseph for protecting unborn children and we sang a little Marian antiphon.

I cried.

Then we were done and I had to run off in several directions, but I saw him again at Church. I went to Mass (and yet another Rosary -- I love the Rosary, it is my lifeline to IHS) and the parish was also laying on a little outdoor hotdogs and hamboogers for the Life people (later there would be a class on sidewalk counseling, but the kind of person who wants to ask, "So tell me: do YOU think soul is to body as burning is to fire?" is not really cut out for that stuff.)

In that connection, I was unarmed, but all my usual kit was in a bag inside my knapsack instead of hanging off my belt.

It was really cool that about half a mile before I got to the abortuary I passed one of my favorite Deputies, so I thought the little exchange we had might have contributed to our not getting any LEO harassment.

Anyway, God is so GOOD! He lets us help, and when we help a teeny bit, He overwhelms us with blessings.

Non-Christians are missing the best deal in the universe! We have to let them know!

Uh oh. There goes the blasé, nineties kind of guy schtick .....

8 posted on 08/22/2008 5:56:58 PM PDT by Mad Dawg (Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.)
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To: Mad Dawg

Send a report after your rally with Fr. Enteneur.


9 posted on 08/22/2008 9:16:49 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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To: Mad Dawg
Anyway, God is so GOOD! He lets us help, and when we help a teeny bit, He overwhelms us with blessings.

Woohoo, a metaconcept! I love seeing the big picture!

Oh, the catz are back, and they left the screen door open again. Seeya.

10 posted on 08/23/2008 3:27:43 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Obama: Can't kill the innocent fast enough, can't free the guilty soon enough!~ Diana in WI)
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To: Salvation

See MD’s #8. I’d like to mention that I actually read the article, finally :-).


11 posted on 08/23/2008 4:40:41 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Obama: Can't kill the innocent fast enough, can't free the guilty soon enough!~ Diana in WI)
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