>>>>>it is hard to know where to begin to debunk it.
How to debunk the idea that the Elephant In The Living Room is not really an Elephant In The Living Room?
I’ve had this discussion many times on FR, and I can tell you how it ends.
I can tell you how it ends, too. It ends with one individual throwing up his hands and saying "I'm done with this thread" and running away like a scared little girl rather than addressing specific relevant questions asked of him.