“The” church has nothing to do with my being filled with the Holy Spirit. He came when I received Christ as my Lord and Saviour and I can ask the Holy Spirit daily or any time I want to to fill me. Scripture says I can do just that. I know there are phonies in every denomination and many claim to be filled with the Holy Spirit but their FRUITS will decide whether they truly are or not. THE church has little or nothing to do with it.
We have our instructions from the Lord and from His Church.
You may or may not have received the Holy Spirit via another venue, I cannot say. All I know is that we attempt to do as we are instructed.