Free Republic
Browse · Search
Religion
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

Pastor accused of sending girl obscene messages
Savannah Now ^ | December 28, 2007

Posted on 12/29/2007 6:33:15 AM PST by Gamecock

JACKSONVILLE - After 14 years of leading a Jacksonville church, the Rev. Darrell Gilyard had put behind a messy chapter in his life when reports of affairs with church members forced his resignation from a Dallas, Texas-area church.

But during the weekend, allegations of sexual misconduct again put a cloud over Gilyard's ministry.

Gilyard, 45, took a voluntary paid leave of absence from Shiloh Baptist Church after a mother's report to the sheriff's office that she found obscene text messages on her daughter's cell phone from a phone owned by the preacher.

Gilyard, who lives in a gated community and does not have a listed phone number, could not be reached to comment. Gilyard told church leaders in a letter Friday he would go on leave to have a "complete and thorough review of the facts."

His attorney, Brian Coughlin, said in a written statement, "The issues and situation that have been presented to us are ones that we take very seriously. Once those are known, we will proceed accordingly."

Congregation members arriving for Sunday morning services at the church found their pastor missing from his usual place in the pulpit.

"Only God is perfect," church member Robert Anderson said. "I think it should be thoroughly investigated to see what the facts are."

Beyond the fast-growing ministry of Shiloh, Gilyard has risen to a position of civic leadership. On Dec. 13, Mayor John Peyton appointed Gilyard to a 16-member steering committee for a citywide effort to reverse the violent crime.

Gilyard asked Sunday to resign from the appointment and his offer was accepted, said Susie Wiles, Peyton's chief of communications.

Gilyard became pastor of Shiloh Metropolitan Baptist Church in 1993 after a rapid rise and fall at Victory Baptist Church in Richardson, Texas, near Dallas. In 1991, Gilyard resigned at the age of 29 after accusations of sexual impropriety, according to a 1993 article in the Florida Times-Union.

When Shiloh installed Gilyard as pastor, a church member said Shiloh was standing behind the minister and welcomed the rejuvenating leadership he brought to the church.


TOPICS: Current Events; Religion & Culture
KEYWORDS: minister; molester; pastor; protestant; protestantpastor

1 posted on 12/29/2007 6:33:17 AM PST by Gamecock
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | View Replies]

To: Gamecock

florida: saw it off, kick it away.


2 posted on 12/29/2007 7:38:26 AM PST by the invisib1e hand (whose spirit is hillary channelling these days?)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock
>Pastor accused of sending girl obscene messages

He'd just seen the show
where Mayor West has a fling
with Peter's daughter . . .

3 posted on 12/29/2007 7:44:38 AM PST by theFIRMbss
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock
Gilyard, who lives in a gated community and does not have a listed phone number, could not be reached to comment.

"Brother Loves Traveling Salvation Show", pass the collection plate!

I bet you would find people that would say this dirt bag is a good man.

4 posted on 12/29/2007 7:56:09 AM PST by org.whodat (What's the difference between a Democrat and a republican????)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

oh, if only protestant ministers could marry, so this sort of behavior...oh, wait...they are allowed to marry....hmmm, i thought thatmarriage was the solution to all clergy sexual misconduct issues....

hmmmm.....


5 posted on 12/29/2007 8:06:37 AM PST by raygunfan
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 4 | View Replies]

To: raygunfan

That’s not the point.

The home office aiding and abetting such behavior is....


6 posted on 12/29/2007 8:21:04 AM PST by Gamecock (Aaron had what every megachurch pastor craves: a huge crowd that gave freely and lively worship.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 5 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock

no, that is the point, ask anyone regarding any priest sexual misconduct, and the answer is invairably, ‘let them marry, and the problem will cease’...

this just goes to show it isnt marriage, it is the individuals behavior....it happens in all walks of life, married or not...

its just the church is the easy target....


7 posted on 12/29/2007 8:56:20 AM PST by raygunfan
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 6 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock

Maybe if there was a Seinfeld episode that explained it, you’d get the point.


8 posted on 12/29/2007 9:57:26 AM PST by A.A. Cunningham
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 6 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock

Doesn’t look like either he or his lawyer is denying the accusation.

Looks like he’s going to have to move again to find some new sheep to shear.


9 posted on 12/29/2007 1:13:49 PM PST by PAR35
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock

You can click on the church web page, and see links to ‘Whatzup’, ‘Dreaming Big: Prayer of Jabez’, ‘Ask Pastor G’ (actually, some of the answers are fine), and other useful links. http://www.shilohbaptist.com/


10 posted on 12/29/2007 1:20:29 PM PST by PAR35
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock

Being of the cloth is evidently part of such pervert’s thrill.


11 posted on 12/30/2007 9:22:37 AM PST by onedoug
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

To: Gamecock
Update: Baptist pastor Gilyard arrested for sex messages to teens

JACKSONVILLE, Fla. (ABP) -- Once touted by Southern Baptist leaders as the nation's next great African-American preacher, Darrell Gilyard was arrested Jan. 14 for sending lewd text messages to underage girls.  Dogged for 20 years by dozens of allegations of extramarital sex with parishioners, Gilyard, 45, resigned Jan. 4 as pastor of Shiloh Metropolitan Baptist Church, a 7,000-member megachurch in Jacksonville, Fla., that he has served for 15 years. It is the fifth church position that Gilyard has been forced to resign from over charges of sexual misconduct.

Gilyard was charged with lewd and lascivious conduct. He will be arraigned Feb. 5. Police have been investigating a Nov. 29 complaint filed by a member of the congregation claiming Gilyard sent sexually explicit text messages to her daughter. At least one other girl allegedly received similar text messages. One of the mothers produced a journal detailing her daughter's sexual relationship with the pastor, the police said. The girls are 14 and 16 years old, according to media reports.  Gilyard was not available for comment after his arrest.

A native of Palatka, Fla., Gilyard rose to sudden fame in the Southern Baptist Convention in the late 1980s under the mentorship of former SBC presidents Jerry Vines and Paige Patterson. The attention catapulted him to several pastorates as well as appearances on Jerry Falwell's nationally broadcast TV program.  His story of growing up a homeless orphan living under a bridge in Jacksonville, which Falwell promoted with a video biography, was later discredited.

But Patterson, once Gilyard's teacher at Criswell College in Dallas, continued to promote the charismatic young preacher’s career -- even, according to the Dallas Morning News, after several women confronted Patterson with charges of sexual abuse and misconduct. He said at the time the women lacked evidence and witnesses.  Patterson, in a statement released to a sympathetic news outlet Jan. 9, said Criswell College expelled Gilyard after some allegations were substantiated. He noted that he even moderated the congregational meeting in which Gilyard resigned -- at Patterson’s insistence -- from the church he served while a Criswell student.

“Nearly two decades ago, I was neither an investigator nor a judge but the president of a small Bible college. I certainly did not have resources available to me to pursue the case, yet I did all that I could within my means to discover the truth when allegations concerning Mr. Gilyard were brought to my attention,” Patterson told the Southern Baptist Texan. “Once I had investigated the matter and was able to substantiate that Mr. Gilyard was guilty, I got him to confess that guilt publicly.”  Beginning in 1985, Gilyard was hired and then forced out of positions at three Dallas-area churches: Victory Baptist Church in Richardson, Concord Missionary Baptist Church in Dallas, and Shiloh Baptist Church in Garland. He was similarly hired and forced to resign at Hilltop Baptist Church in Norman, Okla. At least 25 women in the Dallas church publicly accused him of sexual misconduct, according to a church spokesperson. Some of the women alleged he raped them, the Morning News said in 1991.

The public allegations subsided after Gilyard, who is now divorced, moved to the Florida church in 1993, but new allegations resurfaced last year. Church leaders confronted him after the most recent police complaint was filed, according to several Jacksonville media reports.  In a news release about his Jan. 4 resignation from Shiloh Metropolitan, Gilyard said: "My commitment to the church and its congregation has been one of the most rewarding of my life. In life, there comes a time when the needs of the many outweigh the needs of one, and the church and its ministry are larger than just me."

A support group for survivors of clergy sex abuse said Jan. 9 that Patterson, now president of the SBC's Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, should be suspended from the seminary while its trustees investigate his "profound failure of moral judgment" in promoting Gilyard and ignoring the allegations two decades ago.  "Surely an institution dedicated to the development of spiritual leaders should consider the sort of spiritual leadership exemplified by its own president, who reportedly exhibited an extraordinarily blind-eyed response to clergy sex abuse," said David Clohessy, national director of the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests.

"We ask you to demonstrate this institution’s commitment to treating clergy sex abuse and cover-ups seriously by suspending Paige Patterson, fully investigating and publicly reporting your findings," Clohessy said in a letter to Southwestern trustees, which was posted on one of SNAP's websites, www.stopbaptistpredators.org .  Noting Gilyard is now charged with abusing teenagers, not just adults, Clohessy said, "This often happens when a pastor’s predatory conduct goes unchecked: the hurtful and abusive conduct escalates."


12 posted on 01/19/2008 7:00:05 PM PST by Coleus (Abortion and Euthanasia, Don't Democrats just kill ya?)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 1 | View Replies]

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
Religion
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson