Posted on 12/02/2007 3:42:10 PM PST by NYer
The seasons are out of whack. And I dont mean because of climate change or global warming. The seasons I refer to are liturgical ones, especially the beginning of the liturgical year: the Advent, followed by the Christmas Season.
You know that the seasons are out of whack. Weve all seen the Christmas decorations emerge in autumn like the changing of the leaves. By October, the retail world is in full-scale Christmas mode, with only a thin veneer of Halloween and Thanksgiving cosmetics around the edge. At their core, the stores are all about Christmas.
By the time Thanksgiving has come and gone, everything especially in our media culture is in full Christmas mode.
If one knew nothing of the liturgical calendar (and how many really do?), one might think the Christmas season actually does begin the day after Thanksgiving and lasts until Dec. 25, when it abruptly ends with the opening of presents and the filling of trash bags with torn wrappings. Out goes the tree, end of season.
Of course, the season that actually begins around the time of Thanksgiving is Advent, the period including the four Sundays before Christmas, our time of waiting for the coming of the Lord. It is supposed to be a mini-Lent, a time of fasting and preparation to receive the newborn Lord of Lords.
Then Dec. 24, Christmas Eve, launches the real Christmas season that lasts until the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord, Jan. 13.
In our homes and families, how can we restore the order of the liturgical calendar? How can we make Advent a time of spiritual preparation, and let Christmas be Christmas?
In our home, weve had some success over the past few years reclaiming Advent by fasting from all electronic media. That may sound difficult, but the fact is its quite easy certainly easier than when we do it during Lent.
There are so many gatherings and activities and parties in the weeks leading up to Christmas, its actually pretty easy to do without television, movies, the Internet.
But wait a minute that sounds like were just replacing media with other forms of pre-Christmas Christmas celebration. How does that help the family focus on Advent?
The other key is to really celebrate Advent with its own traditions: lighting Advent candles in a wreath on the dinner table, along with the prayers provided by our parish. We also have a Jesse Tree, at which we pray every evening of Advent and walk through salvation history with stops that recall all the great moments of the Old Testament that lead up to the coming of the Christ.
Many books and online resources offer great ideas for how to put together a Jesse Tree and pray at it every day. My wife made ours out of felt, with colorful pieces that our children pin to the tree every day of Advent.
Then, once the Christmas season actually arrives, along with the gifts and decorations, out come your favorite Christmas CDs, DVDs and videos.
The family enjoys them for days, making the Christmas season special because it really is when we celebrate, not only with one another but also with Charlie Brown, the Little Drummer Boy and George Bailey.
Best of all, we and our children have spent a month detaching ourselves from the electronic media monster. We have renewed our ability to interact with one another and turn first to one another in friendship, rather than turning to appliances for entertainment.
For me, its almost to the point where I look forward to Advent more than Christmas.
Almost.
**Making Advent a Reality (the seasons are out of whack) **
The Seasons are not out of whack. The Catholic Church is just basically a month ahead! LOL! Happy New Year!
How many Catholics are actually aware of this?
In our home, weve had some success over the past few years reclaiming Advent by fasting from all electronic media. That may sound difficult, but the fact is its quite easy certainly easier than when we do it during Lent.
That's the spirit! Just do it! This year, reclaim Advent - enjoy it! Limit your gifts! Consider donating to those who have little or nothing - like Aid to the Church to assist in rebuilding the Chaldean Catholic Churches in Iraq. Poverty is a major problem in Lebanon. Each year, our parishioners give to a needy family in Lebanon. On December 23, our pastor wires the funds collected to a specific individual in Lebanon who ensures that ALL of what has been collected is distributed to one or several (if there is enough money) families. They received the money on Christmas Even with sufficient time to purchase food for their Christmas table and a few small gifts for the children.
The Christmas season begins on Christmas Day and lasts for two weeks. Go out and enjoy all of the splendor with your family. Make this the year you turn off the news and tune in to the festivities offered up in your local parish. You will never regret it.
Immaculate Conception Novena -- starts November 30th [Catholic/Orthodox Caucus]
Making Advent a Reality (the seasons are out of whack)
The Advent Workshop -- lots of information and activities
Advent Wreath & Candles (Prayers for the Family)
Reclaiming the Mystery of Advent, Part One: The Meaning of Advent
Celebrating Christs Advent [Archbishop Raymond Burke]
Praying through Advent -- 2006
Advent: the Reason for the Season
Advent Activity - The Jesse Tree
That incredible shrinking Advent-Christmas season (Christmas should start, not end, Dec. 25)
Advent Thoughts: Some of the Church Fathers on the Divinity of Christ
The Relationship Between Advent and the Change in the Seasons (Dom Guéranger)
Can't figure out why that wouldn't work above. Hmmmm.
How many Catholics are actually aware of this?
In our home, weve had some success over the past few years reclaiming Advent by fasting from all electronic media. That may sound difficult, but the fact is its quite easy certainly easier than when we do it during Lent.
That's the spirit! Just do it! This year, reclaim Advent - enjoy it! Limit your gifts! Consider donating to those who have little or nothing - like Aid to the Church to assist in rebuilding the Chaldean Catholic Churches in Iraq. Poverty is a major problem in Lebanon. Each year, our parishioners give to a needy family in Lebanon. On December 23, our pastor wires the funds collected to a specific individual in Lebanon who ensures that ALL of what has been collected is distributed to one or several (if there is enough money) families. They received the money on Christmas Even with sufficient time to purchase food for their Christmas table and a few small gifts for the children.
The Christmas season begins on Christmas Day and lasts for two weeks. Go out and enjoy all of the splendor with your family. Make this the year you turn off the news and tune in to the festivities offered up in your local parish. You will never regret it.
How would you suggest we do this?
OK, so I have been pondering visible symbolism for Advent. When all of the neighbor’s Christmas lights are going up, what can we do to represent Advent in a visible way? A few ideas:
Purple flood lights?
Purple lights on the trees and shrubs?
An advent wreath display on the front lawn?
An empty manger?
An outdoor Jesse Tree?
Any other ideas?
Why purple?
So sound excellent.
Just the words, “Keep Christ in Christmas” would be great. Our Knights of Columbus are selling them. I have one for my window (smaller) with Christ in the Crib and Mary and Joseph with the words, “Keep Christ in Christmas.”
I like the purple lights idea — for Advent. No one else would have them. Would you change them to white for the Christmas season then or keep the purple ones? (Now that I think of it — everyone would ask why you had purple lights??)
What a conversation and conversion opportunity!
Blessings.
**An outdoor Jesse Tree?**
This would be excellent, but would motorists be able to see the signs? Or would they just be visible to pedestrians? Guess it depends on where you live.
My Christian family and friends really get it. I hope everyone driving by, if even for the moment, is touched by the true meaning of the season.
Each season of the liturgical year has an associated color. Purple is used during Advent and Lent, Red (or White) for Pentacost, Green for Ordinary Time, etc.
Yes, I’m thinking of a dramatic change to white or multicolor on Christmas eve. But first I need to find a purple light merchant!
My parish has a Christmas tree that is setup as a Heart and Hands giving tree. The tree has just lights and heart and mitten hands contruction paper designs with requests for certain donations for those in need, either children or adults.
True, the Church begins the new year. :)
I look at Advent more not so much as a mini-Lent, but a Joyous preparation for the coming of King of Kings.
Happy New Year 2008 a month ahead!
Do you have a link where one could donate to the Chaldeans in Iraq?
"Happy New Year"
Wait to put any decorations or lights up until Gaudete Sunday, then don’t take them down until after the Feast of the Epiphany.
Unfortunately, this would go over most people’s heads, and they would most likely assume that the reason was simply sloth or tardiness. Many, including some very devout protestants, are simply not aware of liturgical seasons.
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