FWIW, we are supposed to be judgmental.
We have been told how to live and to judge one another. We are not supposed to condemn those that are doing the same things we are doing. We are both supposed to stop and after we take the plank out of our eye help our brother take the plank out of his eye. That does not mean we are to live like pagans so we don't seem judgmental of pagans.
Course we are, tho our official state church (secular humanism) teaches that Christians are sinning if they do it in line with Christian faith.
Help a brotha take a plank out hes ahye