[DelphiUser]

You are asked to do this by WHOM?

The officiator of the ceremony politely asks if anyone is not here of their own free will and choice to raise their hand, they will be invited to spend time elsewhere in the temple, where there are some really nice quiet waiting rooms, no-one will say a thing.

Is it written in your SCRIPTURES to do this?

The LDS scriptures are replete with discussions of agency, God will force man to do nothing, even coming to earth was a choice.

[nowandlater]

Here’s Bruce R. McConkies last talk. He died just a few days afterwards. I double dog dare the skeptics to listen!

The Purifying Power of Gethsemane - Part 1

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZTqeJ2d3DwY

The Purifying Power of Gethsemane - Part 2

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9NRhzkyURk

The Purifying Power of Gethsemane - Part 3

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=feJ-6CuuCxY

[Elsie]

The officiator of the ceremony politely asks if anyone is not here of their own free will and choice to raise their hand, they will be invited to spend time elsewhere in the temple, where there are some really nice quiet waiting rooms, no-one will say a thing.

I guess the 'this' part was not adequately defined:

Who asks you...

NOT TO TELL WHAT GOES ON THERE?