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March 15, 2007

Forgiveness

Everyone thinks forgiveness is a lovely idea until they have something to forgive. ~C. S. Lewis

Louis Smedes, author of several books on forgiveness, notes that we do not forgive simply because we are supposed to forgive. We forgive because we need to be healed.

Forgiveness is said to have three stages. I don’t deny what the person did not do nor do I pretend it wasn’t wrong. But . . .

1. Instead of identifying the person totally with whatever they did to hurt me, I begin to see them as a person like me – imperfect, but still someone God loves.

2. I give up my “right” to get even. Vengeful thoughts don’t make the other person suffer. They hurt me. So I just plain rinse my mind of those kinds of thoughts.

3. I stand next to the Lord and together with him look at the other person. For sure, Jesus wants good things to happen to them. So, with the Lord’s help (and some struggle,) I begin to look at the other person the way the Lord does.

Think of someone you find hard to forgive. Forgiveness can’t always be accomplished in one sitting . . . . . . or one day. But you might be able to do it by Easter. Today is the halfway mark between Ash Wednesday and Easter.

62 posted on 03/18/2007 7:48:52 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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Thursday – Third Week of Lent

Then the high priest tore his robes and said, “He has blasphemed! What further need have we of witnesses? You have now heard the blasphemy; what is your opinion?” They said in reply, “He deserves to die! Then they spat in his face and struck him, while some slapped him saying, “Prophesy for us, Messiah; who is it that struck you?”(Mt. 26:65:68)

During Jesus’ ministry, there were failed attempts by the religious leaders to trip him up in speech. Now they’ve got him. Jesus just incriminated himself by claiming prerogatives that belong only to God.

The rest of the Sanhedrin agrees, and a death sentence is rendered.

It’s done today in just about every sector, and not by extremists but by the regular folk. For example, studies show that “in your face” rudeness is rampant in the U. S. workplace.

But it’s also present in homes, and in parishes. When there is disagreement on a parish or school issue, righteous rudeness easily erupts.

To be on the receiving end of insulting taunts, to be heckled, is an awful thing. Yet, Jesus took it in silence.

To be on the giving end is worse. It is the deliberate torture of another human being, and it poisons our soul.

We’ve all got excuses to justify it. But they fly in the face of everything Jesus taught . . . . . . and everything Jesus did.

Spend some quiet time with the Lord.

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63 posted on 03/18/2007 7:51:50 PM PDT by Salvation (†With God all things are possible.†)
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