3:1 It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspires to the office of overseer [pastor, or bishop], it is a fine work he desires to do.
3:2 "An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,
3:3 not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money.
3:4 He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity
3:5 (but if a man does not know how to manage his own household, how will he take care of the church of God?),
3:6 and not a new convert, so that he will not become conceited and fall into the condemnation incurred by the devil.
3:7 And he must have a good reputation with those outside the church, so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.
All of which 1 Corinthians 14 underscores...
Would Paul and Jesus have been disqualified from this job? Neither were married.