I see you don't understand the concept of love, do you. WHY WOULDN'T they be interested in those of us whom they loved before they went to heaven? And don't forget, God desires that men be saved. If we united our will to God in heaven, then WE desire all men to be saved, as well. Remember Luke 15 and the discussion about the rejoicing in heaven over one person saved?
What exactly is your idea of heaven, in the reformed world?
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Because by that time they will ALL know for sure that God is perfectly able and willing to handle EVERYTHING Himself. That's His job. :) They will know that God has already chosen those whom are His children and given them to Christ. Their prayers would be of no account toward changing God's mind.
And don't forget, God desires that men be saved. If we united our will to God in heaven, then WE desire all men to be saved, as well.
Those whom God wants to be saved, He saves. Those whom He doesn't want are lost. Either that's true OR God is a colossal failure as an omnipotent Being. If it's God's will to sluff it off and let men decide for themselves, then that would show that He just doesn't care who accepts Him. If He wanted all, then He would have all.
What exactly is your idea of heaven, in the reformed world?
Well, the answer to that could be attempted on a dozen different levels I suppose. Probably the instinct of most Reformers would be to include something like: "look to every place in the Bible where Jesus begins a sentence 'The Kingdom of Heaven is like ...' That's what Heaven is like". :)