Bless you and your wife for your pro life ministry. I have many friends who suffer to this day for having abortions years ago after it became legal. I so admire anyone who dedicates their lives to saving babies, and healing the live victims of the evil called abortion.
Thank you for your kindness. It has been a real blessing to us to be involved. In helping others, we have equally been helped even further to see how valuable and precious life is.
I would like to reccommend some help for your friends that are suffering. "Forbidden Grief." It's a great book that covers a lot of areas such as emotions, spiritual impact, etc. Here's the link:
http://www.rachelsvineyard.org/>Forbidden Grief
There's also other information on there they might find helpful. Healing Retreats are offered as well.
Praying for your friends. May they one day find peace for their suffering.