And how many who post against him are on marriage number two or more?
You are sort of missing the point. Those who purport to teach/lead God's people are held to a higher standard, and have more to answer to God for, than those of us "in the pews." FWIW, I'm still rejoicing with "the wife of my youth" and enjoying a post-menopausal honeymoon that's leaving my head spinning. I was one of old Hal's many victims in the 1970s, and am still playing catch-up with my vocation now. Upon reflection, though, I think I am far better off for having been the victim than I would have been had I been the beguiler, seducer, and abortionist of a move of God.
Oooh, I've often wondered how to delicately describe the wonderful situation my bride of 30+ years and I find ourselves in today. That just about sums it up.