I don't customarily refer to my wife as my "lover," I call her my wife.
The reason there's garbage like that is that in a Catholic church is that a fair amount of the garbage from OCP is written by homosexuals, like, e.g., Dan Schutte, who lives with his male lover -- there's that word again -- in San Francisco. The "hymns" are heretical because the people writing it often aren't faithful Catholics themselves!
Given the choice between homosexual propaganda in the guise of hymnody and something solidly Christian written by Martin Luther ... well, let's just say this Papist will say Hier stande ich, ich kann nicht anders!!
Did that song have the word "Worship" in the title. I thought it was a good song until I heard the word lover.