Having been involved in the TS issue for a couple of years now, I can say that FV's one of the good ones who did not give up. Apparently it wasn't her time. Good thing for us.
About refusing to sign a Living Will. That is an opportunity to formally express your wishes. Remember that all of this anguish over Terri Schiavo was over the fact that she did not express her wishes, so the responsibility by law devolved upon her HINO.
By all means, let us not be discouraged from thinking about and formally spelling out what we would want done if incapacitated. You don't want your fate to fall in the hands of some judge, do you?
Thankfulness for FV's continued good health,
William
To ask a person to sign a "living will" when they have just had an accident, and might not be thinking clearly, is irresponsible. Even clear-headed folks don't always know what they are getting into when signing a so-called "living will." I would rather sign a "will to LIVE."
Here's an example:
The Will to Live
When Marjorie Nighbert entered a nursing home after having a stroke, she did not expect to be starved to death, but that is what happened when she became a victim of her own "wishes."
Like many people, she did not want her life to be prolonged when death was imminent. So Nighbert created a durable power of attorney (DPA), in which she gave her brother control over medical decisions in case she could not make them for herself. And according to the family lawyer, Nighbert said she did not want a feeding tube if she became terminally ill.
When Nighbert fell ill the nursing home followed the orders of the DPA and denied her food and water for two weeks. But then something unexpected happened: She asked to be fed. A court battle ensued, and the court ultimately upheld the nursing home's decision to deny Nighbert food and water. According to the judge, Nighbert was not competent to ask for food, and to give her food would constitute "extraordinary means."
Nighbert died on April 6, 1995.
Excerpt from:
http://www.feministsforlife.org/taf/1995/winter/wiltoliv.htm
To prevent people from suffering the same fate as Marjorie Nighbert, the National Right to Life Committee (NRLC) has created the Will to Live. This differs from the living will by being based on a general presumption for life. It is also much more detailed to avoid ambiguities that could later be interpreted in favor of death. Currently, the Will to Live is complete for fourteen states: Alaska, Arizona, Georgia, Idaho, Kansas, Kentucky, Maine, New Mexico, New York, North Dakota, South Dakota, Washington, West Virginia and the District of Columbia. The other states are in various stages of preparation and will be completed soon.
If you would like a Will to Live for one of the states mentioned, send a business size, self- addressed, stamped envelope to:
The Will to Live Project
419 7th Street, NW, Suite 500
Washington, D.C. 20004.
ALSO, you can download a WILL TO LIVE from nrlc.org