My husband hates music during mass, too. We went to a wedding not too long ago, and he leaned over to me during one of the songs and whispered, "I didn't realize Peter, Paul and Mary were doing religious gigs."
Tell your husband to try to keep up with the liturgical "music is now" movement, for crying out loud. Peter Paul and Mary are so "sixties". The liturgical music makers in their wisdom have brought us up to speed with the Andrew Lloyd Weberization of the mass. Sheesh. V's wife.
Was it a Catholic wedding?