It's a strange world.
I am sorry for your loss. I too am a widower.
I have not been to any funerals for a couple of years but I remember one time many years ago that a fellow died, a close friend, who was a collector of handguns. He was a retired Army officer and quite the firearms expert... mostly of handguns.
Anyway, nobody hit on his widow but some unknown guy approached her as she was leaving the Cemetery and asked WHEN she would be putting his collection up for sale.
Well, she is such a lady that she just smiled very faintly and said NEVER, her sons would be keeping them ALL.
I was right there and was flabbergasted by that guy's behavior.
Bad behavior knows no bounds... even at a funeral.