Your denomination makes religion a full-time job. However, the Body of Christ is in a paradigm shift that will bring the Love of God into our lives with an overflow that makes one just want to Love Him right back!
It's not a full-time job, though some people can pretend that it is. I learned a while back that I can't do everything, and what's more, God doesn't expect me to. His grace is sufficient for my weaknesses. He just wants to know that I am striving to be like Him, and I feel close to that when I, as you say, allow His love to work through me and I feel the Spirit. I have to manifest the desire to change; the amount of change isn't nearly as important.
Curious, did you ever read "Believing Christ" by Stephen Robinson during your sojourn in my denomination?