LADIES: If it were absolutely true that sex on request:
1. Bonds your husband more to you.
2. Significantly reduces probability of infidelity
3. Certainly Enhances the home atmosphere (relational) would you be willing to have sex on request?
Hmmmm....interesting question. I don't "have sex" with my husband to keep him faithful to me. "WE" do this because we love each other. I guess everything else is a good consequence, but I never think about that. I only think about how much I love and adore him. He is a major babe. I'm very attracted to him, can't keep my hands off of him, love him more than anything in the whole entire universe, love him more everyday, etc. We’ve had some terrible, hard times and by the grace of God we are still together. When I hated his guts, it was that big word “commitment” and “for the sake of the children” that kept me in this marriage. Every time we make it through a horrible period and after we cross the deep painful valley together, our love for each other becomes stronger. Funny how that works. I guess God blesses you for hanging in there or something. (Not trying to make people feel bad for getting divorced. Sometimes it's needed).
We don't keep it from each other to gain something we want. It's not a game and it's not a toy to use to manipulate someone. That's not right. The wife is to phileo her husband and he is to agape her. I hope we love and live as God would have it.
Most of my friends keep sex from their husbands and give it when they want something. I think this is very cruel, unkind, unloving behavior.
Marital sex is awesome and I feel sad when people aren't experiencing Song of Solomon.
"When you sign a marriage certificate you don't surrender privacy and rights."
I would say, yes you do. Granted it is polite to give each other "privacy" when we go to the bathroom for example, LOL, however my body is his and his body is mine. We are one. We are to leave and cleave. Besides, once you have a baby together and he nurses you back to health, the privacy thing gets shot to hell and you both don’t really care any more. LOL Nothing is more humbling then not being able to get yourself to a bathroom after a C-section and having your knight in shinning armor walk you there and pull your underwear back up. God love him. I think I'll get off and go hug his neck.
Many blessings.