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Drafting Our Daughters: Why do American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters?
http://covenantnews.com/trewhella030520.htm ^ | Matt Trewhella

Posted on 09/24/2003 8:21:32 AM PDT by xzins

 

In January of this year, 2003, a bill was introduced both in the U.S. Senate and the House of Representatives which would re-institute the military draft. This bill would not only allow the government to draft our sons however (as bad as that is itself), but it would also allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

Recently, I was listening to a Christian radio talk show discussing this bill. The question laid out to the Christian men was - what do you think about the government wanting to draft your daughters into the military for two years? I was appalled and amazed by the responses I heard. All of the callers except one thought it would be just fine for the government to take their daughters for two years. A few of the common responses given for such thinking were - “We live in different times now” and “The women wanted this equality, so it’s only fair” and “With all the government does for us, we should be willing to let them (our daughters) give two years of their life for them.”

As I listened to caller after caller, Christian man after Christian man, declare how willing they were to give up their daughters to the government for two years, I realized how far gone we are as a nation. When Christian men can speak this way about their daughters they have lost a godly affection for their daughters. When you hear this kind of perverse talk, American men have forgotten their God-given function as fathers.

What has made American men this way? Why do they no longer have a godly affection for their daughters? Why don’t they know how to function as fathers?

There are two main causes.

Number One: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the way that Americans raise their children causes an unnatural separation between parent and child.

This is seen from an early age. Many men have their wives return to work after their maternal leave time expires after giving birth to their child. So the child is taken away from the parents and goes to daycare. When the child turns four or five, they are off to the government school. Again, the child is separated from the parents, and this continues to adulthood. Most men send their children away from them at church too. They don’t act as priests in their homes and instruct their children in the faith, rather they dump them off on the church with it’s host of kiddy programs to supposedly do the job.

This bill would allow the government to draft our daughters into the military for two years.

When the child gets older, most men allow their daughters to date. They send them away with a young man alone, rather than establishing some form of godly courtship, hence denying their role as protector. Finally, most men want their daughters out of the house once they turn eighteen. Most do so by sending their daughters away to the university.

This is how most American men raise their children and rule their homes. This is how most Christian men raise their children and rule their homes. My point is that this causes an unnatural separation between parent and child. Because of the separation which has been occurring since a young age and throughout the child’s life, it is easy for a man to say - “With all the government does for us, of course I’m willing to let them have my daughter for two years.” It’s easy because he’s already been separated from her all his life!

Number Two: American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters and have forgotten their roles as father because the State has become father.

Men are to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes. Most men no longer know or exercise these roles as father because the State has assumed the role of father. Herbert Schlossberg, in his book Idols for Destruction, best defines my assertion here. Schlossberg states:

Rulers have ever been tempted to play the role of father to their people. The father is the symbol not only of authority but also of provision. “Our Father who art in heaven...Give us this day our daily bread” (Mt.6:9,11). Looking to the State for sustenance is a cultic act [an act of worship]; we learn to expect food from parents, and when we regard the State as the source of physical provision we render to it the obeisance of idolatry. The crowds who had fed on the multiplied loaves and fishes were ready to receive Christ as their ruler, not because of who He was but because of the provision. John Howard Yoder has rightly interpreted that scene: “The distribution of the bread moved the crowd to acclaim Jesus as the new Moses, the provider, the Welfare King whom they had been waiting for.”

This statement by Schlossberg encapsulates what I mean when I say the State has become father. Men no longer know what it means to be men or fathers anymore because the State has become father. They’re still dependent little boys who’ve never grown up. All is taken care of for them. They’ve never learned what responsibility means because the State takes care of every desire, whim and need. Men have a duty as fathers to be providers, protectors, and priests to their homes,

The draft is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State has assumed the role of father.

and the State wants to take that out of men’s hands and assume the roles of father.

Schlossberg goes on to state:
The paternal State not only feeds its children, but nurtures, educates, comforts, and disciplines them, providing all they need for their security. Once we sink to that level, as C.S. Lewis says, there is no point in telling state officials to mind their own business. “Our lives are their business.” The paternalism of the State is that of a bad parent who wants his children dependent on him forever. That is an evil impulse. The good parent prepares his children for independence, trains them to make responsible decisions, knows that he harms them by not helping them to break loose. The paternal State thrives on dependency. When the dependents free themselves, it loses power. It is, therefore, parasitic on the very persons whom it turns into parasites. Thus, the State and its dependents march symbiotically to destruction.

The tyrant Diocletian, Emperor of Rome, in 301 A.D., declared the State to be “the watchful parents of the whole human race.” The State wanting to take our daughters away and draft them into the military is the ultimate expression and evidence that the State believes it is father, and has assumed the role of father.

When Christian men allow the State to get away with this, they have abrogated their God-given duty and roles as fathers.





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To: Destructor
You're actually onto something.

The culture is hurting our children...both our sons and daughters. It seriously lies to our daughters, though. They end up terribly hurt if they listen to the wisdom of the world.
81 posted on 09/24/2003 10:40:34 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: pram
Ah yes - the voice of the "Hindu" speaks again....
82 posted on 09/24/2003 10:43:18 AM PDT by Chancellor Palpatine (All eyes were on Ford Prefect. Some of them were on stalks.)
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To: xzins
"The culture is hurting our children...both our sons and daughters. It seriously lies to our daughters, though. They end up terribly hurt if they listen to the wisdom of the world."

That's a fact! Maybe some of those daughters coming back in body bags will be the shock necessary to awaken the American people to the truth about Feminism.

83 posted on 09/24/2003 10:47:34 AM PDT by Destructor
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To: xzins
I accept my son being there, however tragic that might be. There's something within me that rebels at the thought of my daughters being there.

As is your prerogative. Nevertheless, the political realities being what they are, I rebel against my son being there if my daughter is exempted. That being said, castigating your son for not subscribing to your views would be tantamount to blaming the victim.

84 posted on 09/24/2003 10:51:04 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: SLB
A lil' proselytizing in the morning, eh?

Simply put, I refuse to believe that a woman's life holds more value than my own - simply because of 2 X chromosomes. And in today's 'push button' military there is no damn reason why women shouldn't also shoulder the burden of defending this nation.

85 posted on 09/24/2003 11:09:39 AM PDT by StatesEnemy
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To: xzins
Just one thing bothers me about this article. The man claims that fathers have lost their 'Godly affection' for their daughters because they think it is fine that they be eligible for the draft.

Does that mean it is okay for fathers NOT to have 'Godly affection' for their sons? Or is he saying that fathers shouldn't want their sons drafted either?

86 posted on 09/24/2003 11:11:43 AM PDT by MEGoody
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To: xzins
On a practical level, if there is a War/ need for full conscription for men (and none for women), what will the colleges look like? Probably 90 + % female, compared to 65 % right now.. And when the "war" was over, would there be jobs for these men, like after WWII ? You think this will be a boost for the nuclear family?

IMO, it would be the opposite. "Women" are unlikely to endorse a GI bill or anything that would reward these soldier citizens and threaten their newly obained status as highest paying breadwinners. The world has changed, women sit in the drivers seat, and they do and will use their leverage to the fullest . This is irrefutable, and of course regrettable..

87 posted on 09/24/2003 11:13:26 AM PDT by Nonstatist
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To: AZLiberty
"run a deficit"

You mean MORE of a deficit. War itself generally results in a deficit.

88 posted on 09/24/2003 11:13:58 AM PDT by MEGoody
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To: MEGoody
No. It doesn't come out in this particular article, but this man doesn't support the draft at all.

He's highlighting the difference between our sons and daughters -- that fathers, because of the nature and abilities of daughters, should be more protective of them in areas such as these.

And he's making a point about a paternalistic state that DOESN'T protect them at all.
89 posted on 09/24/2003 11:14:38 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: xzins
Drafting Our Daughters: Why do American men no longer have a godly affection for their daughters?

The MEN are gone. What we have now are willing "W2" slaves, without personal courage, or resolve.

90 posted on 09/24/2003 11:15:03 AM PDT by RISU
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To: Little Ray
"That said, since the feminists have screwed everything else up, draft 'em."

I was thinking the same thing. They should be the first to go. :)

91 posted on 09/24/2003 11:15:37 AM PDT by MEGoody
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To: Nonstatist
I'm not sure it's irrefutable.

In any case, we have learned that women eventually turn their hearts toward the nest. They want to have children, family.

They've left careers in droves because of this innate drive.
92 posted on 09/24/2003 11:16:50 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: RISU
The culture has worked overtime for decades to get rid of men.

They prefer the soft male: metrosexual, homosexual.

93 posted on 09/24/2003 11:19:06 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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To: Apa6
"We NEED women to stay here and make babies to replace the thousands who will die in a major conflict."

So you are saying you want all the young women to breed with the men who are too old to serve? (All the young men with good genes will be out fighting the war.)

94 posted on 09/24/2003 11:21:52 AM PDT by MEGoody
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To: StatesEnemy
A woman's life is more valuable for the human race. A man could conceivably father an infinite number of children while a woman can only raise a few at a time.
95 posted on 09/24/2003 11:23:00 AM PDT by ffusco (Maecilius Fuscus,Governor of Longovicium , Manchester, England. 238-244 AD)
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To: xzins
Take a look at Sweden and glimpse the future . The marriage rate is a quarter to a third of the US, cohabitating exceeds married couple life, the birth rate is 60 % that of US, women are highly represented in govt, business. Its a real adrogynous nirvanna, with lots of abortion, teen suicide, and disfunctional, femminized male youths and the rest of the leftist dissolution. And they spend nothing on defense and are more homogeneous than we are, which is their advantage.

Some things never return to the way they were, I wish it were not so, human nature or not. What man put asunder...

96 posted on 09/24/2003 11:25:16 AM PDT by Nonstatist
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To: Woahhs
"there is a choice being made, and it is being made by women."

They are not without their male cohorts.

97 posted on 09/24/2003 11:26:38 AM PDT by MEGoody
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To: ffusco
False argument.

Men can both father and raise a child.

And besides, take a look around... it ain't as if there's a shortage of people. Frankly I could do with a lot less.

98 posted on 09/24/2003 11:28:46 AM PDT by StatesEnemy
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To: StatesEnemy
"I don't believe you mean that about your own daughter Glint. I think you'd protect her in a way you don't understand because something intuitive says that she is different and in need of you because of your strength."

Sorry, wrong guy. Never had a daughter.
99 posted on 09/24/2003 11:31:43 AM PDT by Steely Glint ("Political language...is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable..." - G. Orwell)
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To: Nonstatist
I was in a masters program with a Swede who had left a successful business and left his country. He had a multi-million operation, but once he went over a million (maybe half a mil -- my memory's failing) he had to give 98% to the government. That was in 1983. He quit and immigrated to the US. I think it eventually got to 104% of amount over -- which was their way of saying they didn't trust their businesses NOT to be cheating them.

They cleared Sweden out of their productive creative minds.
100 posted on 09/24/2003 11:32:57 AM PDT by xzins (How shall they hear?)
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