[Hildy]

How dare you. If I told my husband I wanted not to be kept alive through extraordinary means, and other people in my family tried to do that, I would expect him to do JUST what this husband is doing. Nobody has been able to prove to me that he will gain financially. I will believe what I've heard him say that this was her wish and his promise to her.

[oceanperch]

Ok just to be sure your wishes are carried out put it writing and get it Notartized so there will be no legal hassles.