[bert]

...who couldn't plan....

A reason near the top of the list.

Excessive planning is a primary reason for divorce when circumstance alters reality.

A woman who plans obsessivly should be avoided like the plague.

[Desdemona]

A woman who plans obsessivly should be avoided like the plague.

It depends on what/how she is planning. Big, elaborate weddings, which are so just because that's what everybody is doing, yes. Unless, only family and the neighborhood are invited.

Now, if she is planning on avoiding taxes, this is a problem?