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Man Dying of Child Support Enforcement
Mens News Daily ^ | May 30, 2003 | Roger F. Gay

Posted on 05/31/2003 2:42:54 PM PDT by sourcery

The child support enforcement program is a disease that has probably caused more suffering and death than any other government program. It was introduced by Congress in 1975 and has been engineered into a weapon of mass destruction in the years since. Despite sound evidence of destructive economic, social, and political effects and repeated cases of suicide linked to insufferable conditions created by current practices, politicians and administrative representatives continue to satisfy themselves with less than convincing denials, a few false and misleading statistics, and the claim that "it's for the children."

Various protests have generally been ignored, even when they are so serious as to cause harm to protesters. Potential danger lies in a particular form of protest: the hunger strike. The problems with child support enforcement, which were internationalized during the 1990s, have been met with occasional hunger strikes in several countries. Daniel Chang, a Chinese immigrant, has been the most recent to stage a hunger strike in the United States. His strike began on May 15th in Piscataway, New Jersey. Dr. Chang holds a Ph.D. in computer science and has a professional job. Despite federal involvement based on a pre-existing federal involvement in welfare, this case has nothing to do with the public welfare system.

The federal child support enforcement program is not for the children of course. The money spent on children is just as green whether paid under state rules or through a federal program. The incentive is the billions of dollars that Congress spends each year to keep people interested. States receive "incentive funds" in proportion to the amount of child support collected. In order to maximize the amount of funds they receive, states enrolled as many men as they could and arbitrarily increased the amount they were ordered to pay. All payments are counted as "collections." Everybody in government understands the scheme. It's pork. It's a brand of corruption older than government itself. A prospective enemy was demonized ("dads"), and people were called to arms against them; pledging their money and loyalty to the cause.

My early introduction to the child support enforcement system included a case in which a chiropractor had been involved in a serious auto-accident that resulted in brain damage. He was unable to continue his practice, and his savings was eaten up by medical bills. The state enforcement agency echoed the prevailing political sentiment ? "There is no excuse for not paying child support," and began confiscating social security benefits in an effort to satisfy the very high payments that had been set in light of his previously high income. The crippled man was left without sufficient income to pay for rent and food, and certainly without sufficient funds to pay a lawyer to attempt to straighten things out.

The reason for such harsh measures is the federal funding system. States receive money in proportion to the amount of child support "collected." Taking away social security benefits may have been worth $10 a month to the state; a little bit toward paying the salary of the collection agent who was robbing him of his sustenance.

This is the system that Dr. Chang is fighting. It isn't about reducing welfare expenditure. The money he owed is for support of his daughter from his first marriage. She is now 20 years old (an adult) and studying pharmacy at Rutgers University. He also has a 12 year old daughter from his second marriage. A well-paid professional, the austerity of his home and lifestyle is testimony to payment levels that are out of proportion to caring for children. Someone in his economic position would normally be able to raise two children in reasonably good style.

That judges have become beneficiaries in the enforcement scheme, pay linked to outcome, is a direct attack on judicial independence and therefore our Constitution ? in effect, an attack against the United States. American colonists raised this same issue in the Declaration of Independence; complaining about the King of Great Britain and his manipulations of democracy and the rule of law. "He has made Judges dependent on his Will alone, for the tenure of their offices, and the amount and payment of their salaries."

Dr. Chang has only protested once before. In June, 1989 he marched with others in New York City to protest the killing of peaceful protesting students and others by the Chinese government. The only pattern seems to be a loathing of government oppression. And this time it's personal. He has been jailed three times (once for 108 days) and has no drivers license due to child support debt. This represents two of the practices fathers so often complain about. Atop arbitrary, unjustifiably high child support orders, often the reason for debt to begin with, spending time in jail and being unable to drive make earning an income to pay child support (and support oneself) ever so much harder. The alleged success of such practices is really a few instances in which friends and family, who do not owe child support, have pitched in to pay debts. That led at least one judge to claim that the practices worked for him. By and large, the expanded practice has left tens of thousands of fathers without licenses and an untold number with unlimited jail time; often until debt is paid, with no way to pay the debt while in jail.

Dr. Chang's experience is one that has been repeated many times across the country over the past fifteen years. Sheriff's deputies literally kicked in the door to his apartment and arrested him at gunpoint - weeks after he had made necessary payments. Employees at the Middlesex County Child Support Department had refused to help weeks earlier after his employer had missed a child support payment and miscalculated another. His employer is charged with making payments after deducting them from his pay, a common practice since the early 1990s. Dr. Chang points out that his employer is generally cooperative with the agency, but had made errors after an end-of-year payroll conversion. He contacted the child support agency and sent the money himself, but that didn't stop the violent enforcement action weeks later.

Give me liberty, or give me death! Or as Dr. Chang puts it: "It is better to die once than live a thousand humiliations." Isn't this just the sort of thing that led to the American Revolution? Is it the kind of government behavior that led to student protests in Tienanmen Square? It's probably deeper than that.

The assault on a man's life typically begins with a mother who decides to "liberate" herself from marriage, simply dealing a father out of his own personal and family life. The process is exceptionally easy. The government has been dedicated to helping women "liberate" themselves from marriage for decades. Once extricated, women often move on to new relationships, taking his children, a portion of his property and future income with them. The engineering of a new life quite often involves keeping the old one (the ex-husband) at an extreme distance, totally disengaged from his own children.

The process and its effects involve the deepest emotions there are. But to that we have now added a government operation designed by people who are using the situation to steal. They're stealing money from these very same fathers, often making mere existence difficult. They are doing it in order to steal money from taxpayers who are paying for the system in proportion to the amount of money taken from fathers. Finally, as if that isn't enough, they're stealing freedom and even life.

Dr. Chang hopes to force a conclusion to his ordeal within one month of the start of his protest. If he can, he will eat again and return to work. He has two weeks vacation and has arranged for a two week extension. This defines his goal of ? in effect ? winning an argument within a month. His water and salt diet is dangerous, especially if it continues for long. Several people have met with him, and have encouraged him to stay alive. When he began his strike on May 15th, he weighed 166 pounds. When I last received an email message from him, May 28th, his weight was 16 pounds less - 150 pounds.

Dr. Chang has vowed to continue until his demands are met. They are as follows (in his own words).

1. I do not owe any money to ex-wife Yee-Sang Yen. 2. If I have a job, fair monthly support money will be sent to the child, Olivia Chang, directly without going through any child support department. 3. The Middlesex Child Support Department repairs the damage it caused to my credit, and informs the Motor Vehicle Services to erase all my driving suspensions and restore my driving privilege immediately. 4. The Middlesex Child Support Department reimburses me the following: $282 for restoring my driving licenses, the cost of repairing the door damaged by the sheriffs, $280 taken from my wallet, $20 for getting from the Middlesex County Court to home.


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To: mylife
"Payment or nonpayment, custody or visitation, does not a Dad make. Fathers are a dime a dozen. Dads, however, are a precious commodity!"

Exactly what part of that statement do you disagree with?

181 posted on 06/01/2003 7:29:14 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: FLAMING DEATH
Very simple solution to this one. Don't marry anyone, and don't fool around.

Sadly, that may be the only solution.  When men are considered merely "sperm donors",
then perhaps men should avoid creating children and allow the women to select anonymous
sperm donors.  At least then, there would be no question of responsibility, it would be 100%
the woman's.  What troubles me the most is we all have an inherent desire to love and be loved.
There is so much man bashing, I'm amazed that the number of gay men isn't doubling every month.

Fortunately, I'm at an age where loving and being loved by my sons, parents and siblings can satisfy me.
I don't see a relationship with a female in the offing, as its just not worth it.

182 posted on 06/01/2003 8:22:03 PM PDT by I_dmc
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To: sweetliberty
"They are nothing but DNA donors and don't deserve the love of a child..."

Amen to that!

This is what I disagreed with....You got a problem with that?
183 posted on 06/01/2003 8:42:21 PM PDT by mylife (Opinions, $1.00 Todays Special: Half Baked, 50 cents)
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To: mylife
I believe that the point was that if a man has to be forced to be a father, he doesn't deserve to be a father, all unfairness of the system aside.
184 posted on 06/01/2003 8:45:57 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: sweetliberty
I think I miss understood you and visa versa. Taken on its own your commment about men being DNA donors alone Struck me as Crass. When I saw this Statement"Payment or nonpayment, custody or visitation, does not a Dad make. Fathers are a dime a dozen. Dads, however, are a precious commodity!"
I realized your intent....But IMHO the same is true of Mothers and Mommies. >
185 posted on 06/01/2003 8:51:40 PM PDT by mylife (Opinions, $1.00 Todays Special: Half Baked, 50 cents)
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To: mylife
"But IMHO the same is true of Mothers and Mommies"

Without a doubt.

186 posted on 06/01/2003 8:53:10 PM PDT by sweetliberty ("Having the right to do a thing is not at all the same thing as being right in doing it.")
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To: sweetliberty
:^)
187 posted on 06/01/2003 8:54:32 PM PDT by mylife (Opinions, $1.00 Todays Special: Half Baked, 50 cents)
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To: I_dmc
After reading most of this (I found I could not tear myself away)I have spent the last hour debating whether to post something. What would be the point. I've tried to think of something positive to interject, and am still trying. I have seven children all by the same man. I stayed home until the last child was three, homeschooling them all. I stayed married until the abuse became physical towards the kids) because I loved him and committed myself to him. Commitment is a choice. A choice no one any longer feels an obligation to make. We have a "right" to ignore that choice. Love is a feeling. A feeling we have a "right" to feel no matter who it hurts - our children's future, our credibility; everyday feeling less, not more, becoming weaker, not stronger. An influence for good no more.

The court requires him to pay $60.00 a week, and I don't mean per child. He would not pay any unless they made him. He believes he is not responsible to provide financially for his family. He is trying to have the court make me move out of our house so that he can move in and I can pay child support to him. I would do without the child support, but am told (by other men)someone has to make him responsible. I only want to be left alone to finish raising the children I have, enjoy what time I have with them, and heal the past.

I have seen through all this that we have the society we deserve; that both sexes, without the redemption of Christ, are depraved; that God uses pain to teach us many things including how much He cares for us and how many truly wonderful people there are out there willing to lay down their own lives for complete strangers.
188 posted on 06/01/2003 9:06:08 PM PDT by thelastonestanding
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To: Chancellor Palpatine
"guys who have a clue about life and getting ahead" like REAL mean like you, I suppose, drinking beer and posting online to someone he has no clue about.

Yep, you're an expert on real men, the ones who get thrown out on their ear, get economically raped and can't see their kids. That's a REAL man! You probably got ring around the butt from all the real men you know, you dork.

It's not my fault that these inept women CHOOSE men who walk around like retards shooting smack between their toes and then hold their ridiculous decisions against the entire male gender. I have no sympathy for that what-so-friggin'-ever.

But what should I expect from a bunch of baby-boomer dinosaur pedophile pansy junkies who blew it in life. Still playing that one-note-johnny song about how it's all the guy's fault. Somewhere, somehow, some MAN is going to pay.

I got news for you. Guys are so used to being degraded by antiquated relics like you and the post-menopause witches on this thread that they're numb to it. It does not affect us at all.

So go back to wanking it to Star Wars, cleaning your firearms, playing RPG games at 60 and defending those women who chose "those irresponsible punks that go around like Johnny Appleseed impregnating women without the
slightest concern" while I sit back, dish out a taste of what it feels like, and watch you chimps scream, run around and throw feces like you're at a hazing.

It's so funny.

They dish it out, but they can't take it.
189 posted on 06/01/2003 10:22:55 PM PDT by 666beast
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To: snowstorm12
Wow. I have to say in over 5 years of FReeping, I have never received any reply anywhere near as vapid as yours.

You are obviously unaware that one of the most fundimental rules of reasoning is you can't assume the thing you are trying to prove.

The one thing you have succeded in proving is you are so self-absorbed you ACTUALLY BELIEVE your feelings are more important than other peoples feelings...as long as those others are men.

Where do you get off claiming men's experiences with the opposite sex aren't that bad? Did you not pay any attention to anything on this thread?
190 posted on 06/01/2003 10:45:13 PM PDT by Woahhs
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To: Woahhs
I think that Snowjob is just being silly.
191 posted on 06/02/2003 2:23:20 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck
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To: I_dmc
There is so much man bashing, I'm amazed that the number of gay men isn't doubling every month.

One of the unintended consequences of the looie liberal law's indulgence of "ladies" who aren't, who want to walk out on their man for little more reason than that they are tired of him.

192 posted on 06/02/2003 2:29:51 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck
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To: HiTech RedNeck
I would go along with your point if I hadn't met SO MANY young people who insist the I "don't understand" when the truth is I "don't agree."
193 posted on 06/02/2003 2:41:48 AM PDT by Woahhs
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To: thelastonestanding
Thank you for your positive reply. My parents are in their 80's now, and are approaching 60 years of marriage. That's all I ever wanted. I thought I could stay committed to the mother of my sons and, in retrospect, I could've tried harder to do so. I could forgive much but being indirectly told that I was never loved in this marriage was my breaking point. I can emphathize with your situation, as I know many women in similar circumstances. I just see so much hate being expressed and it pains me greatly. In fact, it was my ex's hate for her ex (comments heard on this thread are quite familiar) that I suspect eventually poisoned our marriage. I tried and tried to help her "discover" the damage that hate caused her, to no avail. I hope your wishes come true, as I've found the bond with my sons becoming the most important part of my life.
194 posted on 06/02/2003 3:39:58 AM PDT by I_dmc
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To: TheCrusader
Great post, too bad you forgot to mention how a man stays married to a women bent of divorce in a nation that grants "no-fault" divorces upon request.

I could give you some suggestions. The question is, would you have the stomach for it.

195 posted on 06/02/2003 6:20:09 AM PDT by TheSpottedOwl (America...love it or leave it. Canada is due north-Mexico is directly south...start walking.)
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To: 666beast
I've decided to not even bother with these spitefull little shrews anymore. No force on this planet is going to change their views. Trying to do so is a waste of time and (speaking for myself) it's not worth the increased blood-pressure to bother.

To all of you on "the other side" of this pissing contest:

I don't know if you've picked up on this yet, but you don't need to degree from the "School of The Bleeding-Obvious" to realize that you have won public debate. The vast majority share your opinion that divorced fathers are wholey deficient. Only those of us who foolishly refuse tounquestioningly shut-up and pay-up, no matter the amount, should feel lucky that the people who's opinions you support don't make it even worse for us. We've been stupid for deluding ourselves for all these years that we can actually think that due-process is more important than the goals and desires of your majority.

As of now, I ask everyone here who I've corresponded with here on FR who thinks, as I did, that we have been treated unfairly by the courts and the people who work in and with the courts, to just 'put a sock in it' and do as your told. Without exception, each and every father who I have known that faught back ended up getting no better than what the system put before them at the start. For the effort, they also got to pay several thousand dollars for their own lawyer as well as being ordered to pay every penny of the guideline amount and then some.

All of you out there who are sick and tired of all of us dead-beats who have spent all this time questioning and debating your point of view...you win. There are a lot more of you than there are of us. And along with that majority, go the resources and power to keep us in line.

Before I end this insipid rambling, I'll also offer this: The politcal machinery and PR campaign that beat us to a pulp, using what you sincerely believe is in the best interest our own children as justification, WILL be turned on each and every one of you in the years to come. When that happens to you and those you care about, please don not look to the rest of us to rally to your cause or assist with your fight. I don't think many of us will be bother to listen, let alone lift a finger to help. Congradulations and good luck.

196 posted on 06/02/2003 9:43:26 AM PDT by Orangedog (Soccer-Moms are the biggest threat to your freedoms and the republic !)
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To: Go Gordon
Fathers are forced to do things monetarily after divorce, that they aren't required to do while still married.

How so? Are they not required to pay medical bills, food, rent, clothing, gifts, school supplies, child care.....etc, while they're married? IMHO, it would be alot easier for women let the men have the kids and pay monthly child support. Then fathers could fund all their kids extra activities, find ways to get them there and back....do the extra laundry/housekeeping .....pay babysitter's when he goes on dates....stay home and get his pay docked when the kids are sick.... and deal with disappointed hearts when Mom doesn't show up for visitations or send birthday gifts.

Money doesn't make up for the day to day inconveniences, turmoil and trouble that the primary guardian has to deal with.

197 posted on 06/02/2003 10:24:10 AM PDT by LaineyDee
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To: LaineyDee
Money doesn't make up for the day to day inconveniences, turmoil and trouble that the primary guardian has to deal with.

You obviously have a misperception. The day to day things I do for my son are done with a smile on my face and warmth in my heart. The way you describe, you make it sound like a chore or work. Maybe you just weren't cut out for having kids.

As far as child support, if I were to be divorced, I'd offer to pay the mortgage and all utilities (electric, gas, oil, water, basic cable, basic non-long distance phone). I would also pay all necessary direct expenses such as clothes. But I'll be damned if I'm going to write a blank check to support ex-honey's life choices.

198 posted on 06/02/2003 10:32:32 AM PDT by Go Gordon
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To: sourcery
I don't see anywhere in this article where it states why the Dr. is in the situation he is in. I used to work in this field an I can tell you it sounds like he is in arrears on the original court order and is therefore in contempt of court. If so, I'll bet the arrearage started when his first daughter was younger and the fact that this daughter is 20 years old an in college does not forgive those arrears. Also, the fact that he has another daughter does not forgive them.

That being said, I agree that the system is grossly unfair to men and I agree with everything else the article said.

199 posted on 06/02/2003 11:48:57 AM PDT by CaptRon
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To: chiromommy
And, despite being an abuser, still gets significant time to torment my children?

What definition of "abuse" would that be?

You think being a single mom sucks...try being raised by one.

200 posted on 06/02/2003 12:10:03 PM PDT by Woahhs
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