[Anamensis]

I understand what you're saying but I'm pretty sure that's not how this one would pan out. There's a preposition there. Where there's a preposition, you get whom, him, them. Apply the old "never end a sentence with a preposition" rule and see what you get.

[Erasmus]

Apply the old "never end a sentence with a preposition" rule and see what you get.

To quote Winston Churchill, "This is the kind of nonsense up with which I will not put."