Gosh, you "feel strongly" -- I guess the rest of us should just shut up. Your feelings are stronger than our views. You sound like a PC Democrat.
I know that women are a hinderance in the military
Gee, you're all knowing. I didn't realize that you're omnipotent. How dare the rest of us challenge you when you "know" it all? I must bow before you because I'm not worthy.
They even get a break when it comes to their hair length.
Well, that trumps all arguments about whether women should be in the service. I'm so glad that's you're biggest point of argument. Of course, last I checked, Delta Force has longer hair so they can do undercover operations. But thanks to you, I'm writing Sec. Rumsfeld and telling him that he needs to give Delta crew cuts so they can fight better (and not like wussy girls).
I will not compromise my values by flinging accolades at a person that in my view didn't belong on the battlefield to begin with.
Gosh. That's impressive how you won't praise anyone if they don't meet your narrow specifications. Like a Democrat, you only care what a person is to start with, not what they actually do.
Anyone ever tell you that you sound a lot like the Taliban? Do you wear a veil? Or, let me guess, some female soldier stole your man from you? You probably blame rape victims for dressing improperly and deserving it.