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USO Canteen FReeper Style Bluesagewoman's Sister Loretta .... October 25,2002
FRiends of the USO Canteen FReeper Style ~ Bluesagewoman and Snow Bunny~

Posted on 10/25/2002 2:26:13 AM PDT by Snow Bunny

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The USO Canteen FReeper Style
Delivering a Touch of Home

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A Touch of Home

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This is how I think of the USO Canteen 
Freeper Style. It is like a cottage down a road,
a place where a weary veteran can spend the night. 


Since it opened, it is magical how so many
Freepers who post here, feel it too. 
It has been so dear how the Freepers
kept making it a cottage - a home-type of 
place that had a huge living room
for them to visit in and a dance floor, 
a library, etc. 


Many Veterans have written to me, 
saying that the Canteen is like home
to them for the first time since they 
served. 


This is your Canteen -
a respite from our busy 
and sometimes troubling world. 
Make yourself at home.

Snow Bunny

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If you know a Veteran, someone in your family, 
friend of the family, neighbor, who served their  
country, take a brief moment of your day to thank 
them. 


Thank them for the sacrifice they made
for the better good of their country.


We at Free Republic, and the USO Canteen FReeper 
Style, are thankful for every service member 
in our military, who has served our great nation.


So, to the men and women who answered the call,
In both times of war and peace, thank you.

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Take up our quarrel with the foe:
To you from failing hands we throw
The torch; be yours to hold it high.
If ye break faith with us who die
We shall not sleep, though poppies grow
In Flanders fields. 


John McCrae 

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The USO Canteen Honors FReepers
who have served, or are now serving their country.

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You may have a loved one who has served in the past.
We at the FReeper USO Canteen would like to honor each and every one.

Loretta was born November 30, 1946 in Hannibal, Missouri,
a river town steeped in folklore and Mark Twain.

Her family owned orchards and truck farms.
Loretta spent hours playing in the orchards,
eating the most delicious peaches in the world,
and helping care for her “baby” brothers.

Her family was very large, and Loretta
was the first grandchild, but soon she had
many cousins, as well as siblings, to play with.
Loretta learned to mother at a very early age.

A bird with a broken wing,
or, an orphaned kitten to nurse
with a baby doll bottle was usually
included in the family on a regular basis.

More siblings were to follow.
Her Mom had to start working full
time at a publishing company to
help support the family.Loretta’s Dad
was a hard worker as well.

Her parents would take the family
camping on overnight fishing trips.
A field trip to the local rock quarry to
collect rocks for the garden, or, catching
tadpoles for an aquarium was common
entertainment.

Most important to Loretta was the piano
set up in the plumbing shop office for her
to play. She had taken lessons for several
years and was by age 10 performing for
school concerts, or playing an old pipe organ
at the Church during Sunday Masses.

There were Catholic churches and the
two were later consolidated into one parish.
Loretta attended both churches and played
at both places, sometimes three Masses or more
on Sunday and possibly a wedding too. Sometimes
she would literally run the half mile between the
churches to get to the next Mass.

She often stuck Bluesagewoman, under the organ
to pump the pedals to the pipes of the organ at
Blessed Sacrament, her legs were too short to reach.




Loretta was in the convent in Nerinx, Kentucky.
Dad was lifting her up to kiss the angel

Loretta decided she wanted to become a nun.
So after graduation from school, she entered the
Loretto Convent in Nerinx, Kentucky. The family
would make a “vacation” out of the drive to go
see her at the convent. However, after a couple of
years, she left the convent before taking the final vows.

This “leaving” would become a pattern
of Loretta’s behavior, which was enhanced
by her tremendous sense of adventure and
lack of fear. But maybe what folks termed
"leaving" may have actually been "going"
toward something new, exciting and different.

Loretta entered Southern Illinois University
that fall and moved to Illinois.

Loretta won a scholarship as an exchange student.
She immediately packed up and moved to Luxembourg.
She lived in a drafty old castle and made side trips on
the weekends visiting Spain, Germany, France, Holland,
and several more countries.

One of her stories to she shared from her experiences
was about the pipe organ in a hallway at the castle in
Luxembourg. The organ was hundreds of years old,
extremely ornate, and had a massive pipe system.As
she would play the organ the Count of the castle would
sit on the other side of the door and listen, apparently
enthralled with the music and Loretta.It was such a
romantic story.

Loretta was always the best storyteller.
Her animated face and creative word choices made for many pleasurable evenings spent as
a family enjoying those things that are free:
stories, popcorn, and laughter.

Music was also a passion in the family.
One brother played classical guitar and the
two little sisters played guitar, but not nearly
as well. They had a banged up piano sitting
around. Somewhere along the line a banjo,
mandolin, harmonica, drums, bongos, violin,
clarinet, combs, spoons, anything that could
be bought cheap or scrounged up were
introduced, and whomever could handle
the instrument, played it.

Bluesagewoman said ,"I am sure much
of what we called music was really just
noise. But Loretta thought it all sounded
glorious to her and encouraged us."

She taught for a short time, then joined the Army

She was last at Ft. Lee, Virginia doing computer programming and logistics.

When she joined the Army she
was 31 or so years old. Loretta
just called her family up one
day and told them she had enlisted.

They had assumed, since her box
of grits, toothbrush and travelling
underwear were gone, she was out
camping again.The boys in the
family had missed being drafted for
various reasons, and here Loretta
runs off and joins up.Who woulda
thunk? Loretta’s Mom was
absolutely stunned.

Bluesagewoman said.......
"My sister Loretta once told us a few years
later in a rare minute of lucidity, that it
was one of the smartest things she had
ever done, to leave the convent and join
the army; they had better insurance."

Life in the Army was very difficult
for a woman at that time.The smallest
boots they had were way to big and
they destroyed her knees and flattened
her feet running many miles in training.
She studied and worked hard, eventually
working logistics. She was put to work
on computer projects for the Army.

She was also a royal screw-up, driving her
drill sergeant nuts, going left for right,
messing up the cadence destroying
the marching choreography.She was
notorious for walking into the men’s
restroom by mistake, once walking in
on a multi-starred general in all his glory.
Her sense of humor got her through it all.

However, after only a few years in the army,
Loretta started having seizures. The problem
eventually caused the Army to discharge her
on medical disability. Seizures were not
conducive to army life and the potent
medication used to control them was
unacceptable for a soldier to use. Her
last post was at Fort Lee, Virginia.

Loretta bought an old house in Petersburg,
Virginia in the Colonial section of town.
The house was run-down, but belonged to
the period. She started to fix it up, taking
great pleasure in its antiquity. The houses
on both sides of her house had been
completely restored and were beautiful
enough to be in Better Homes and Garden
magazine. Loretta loved that house, and
had used every penny of her Army pension
trying to pay for it and fix it up. Loretta
dreamed the whole family could one day
move there.

Loretta’s Dad became ill about the
time Loretta bought the house. Loretta
took him to her home and she and one
of her sisters nursed him until he died.
Her Mother died from a heart attack a
few months later. Loretta often took
people in who were poor, mentally ill,
or hungry. Sometimes renting out rooms
in the house. Bluesagewoman said they
called her "the wing-under-taker."

The money from renting rooms was
not enough so she took a job in
Alaska teaching Eskimo children
music, math and computer. She left
a friend in charge of her house in
Virginia and moved to the tundra.

In Alaska she lived in a log cabin with an
outhouse, and a fireplace for heat. She
loved the Eskimo children but the
life on the brutal and frozen tundra was
becoming too hard for her. She often had
little or no food. Finding and chopping
firewood was a constant chore.

A while later Loretta began having problems
and was transferred to the Salem VA hospital
where they discovered that she had probable
Alzheimer’s. It make it difficult to care for
her properly for her best care so she was taken to a nursing home.

They retired her about 1987 or so, on disability.

Loretta’s old personality would emerge
from time to time. She infrequently
realized she was sick and those times
were the most heartbreaking, when
she would ask,"What is wrong with
me?"and desperately try to go "home"
not knowing even where home was.

She had an almost childlike fascination for
flowers, trees, cats, babies and music, all
that she loved when she was a child.Her
lack of fear often made it difficult to
keep her out of trouble. Her physical
strength made it hard to keep her from
wandering, and really far. When she
would look for home all we could do
was take her outside, say “home is
that way,” and try to keep up; let her
walk herself to exhaustion then tuck
her into bed.

But the same lack of fear had always
caused her to explore life to the limit.
I can only think of the saying “Places
to go, People to meet, Things to do” as
being coined especially for Loretta.

Loretta will always be thought of for
being a marvelous sister, caring
and loving . The water fights she
would instigate, giving the younger
kids water pistols, then, she’d
show up with the garden hose,
or a 5-gallon bucket. (Yes, she
managed to fool them repeatedly
into trusting her that this time, no,
she wouldn’t cheat.) Loretta was
always there with wise words to
guide the siblings, stunts to distract
them, and she had all the answers to
their questions on religion, life and love.

Loretta currently resides in a Veteran's Home
in Missouri in the final stages of Alzheimer's.
She is 56 years of age

She held their hands through sickness,
sorrow and celebrated in their joys.
She shared their families, though she
had none of her own, and was delighted
to have nephews and a niece.

“ Loretta’s treasures were love,
adventure, diversity, and humor.
The little, pesky details may have
gotten lost in her mind, but will
never be truly “forgotten” no matter
the progress of the disease. Even
though this was not the way
she intended for things to be, she’s
made one hell of impact on the
world, her family, and we’ll never
know how many others. The world
bent to suit her, not the other way.
Loretta was an incredibly strong-willed,
generous and courageous woman.".......

Loretta was never firmly rooted to this earth.
One day God will be taking her back
Loretta is one of his favorite angles.

Thank you Loretta. And thank you
Bluesagewoman for sharing and letting
us get to know your sister Loretta.


You fought this battle well my friend 
...........until the very end 
An enemy you could not see 
until one day .... you were set free 
Like a solider in a battle, you fought with all your might 
some stood all alone .... no loved ones left in sight 
but onward you marched until the very end 
the silent enemy lurking at every single bend

Yes, you held your head up high until you could no more 
and then one day you saw it...the gleam on a distant shore 
While holding on to loved ones hands 
you reached out to the one who stands
Upon the other side.

As gently as a dove 
He guided you along .... giving you his total love 
The enemy was lost .... the battle you have won 
When you reached out and took the hand of God's only son!

Your name is written in his book 
you have now regained all that the enemy took 
You fought the battle well my friend 
For you see .... you really won in the end.

You were our mother, father, sister or brother 
A good friend, a spouse, a son or even someones daughter 
We will not forget you as we hold you in our heart 
For not even this silent enemy can keep our souls apart

Upon this wall we etch your name with LOVE 
So others may have hope as you watch now from above 
You are an unsung hero who fought the battle well 
And now stand on heavens shore where forever you will dwell



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To: coteblanche
I absolutely will, cote! Thank you.
201 posted on 10/25/2002 9:06:58 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet
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To: SAMWolf
Good evening, Sam!! Cote did a fabulous job!! I love it!! Woohoo!!

WOOHOO!! HOSTAGES IN RUSSIA ARE FREE!!

203 posted on 10/25/2002 9:08:57 PM PDT by MoJo2001
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To: coteblanche; Snow Bunny; MoJo2001; radu; DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet; All
I'm home! I was very careful, especially since it started RAINING again! ARGHHHHHHHHHHH! Stop, somebody make it stop!
204 posted on 10/25/2002 9:09:03 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska
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To: Snow Bunny; All
I am very glad FR is working now. One of the things we touch on now and then are the veterans in the VA homes around the country. What we have experienced has been exceptional people doing a hard job. There is a strong bond between the staff and families of the loved ones which makes their dedication most remarkable. Maybe we were just lucky to find such a wonderful place, but the staff don't seem to think their work is beyond the ordinary. It is!

It seems that love, patience, and caring are qualities our troops and veterans bring out in us. Thank you for your support and kind words for our family. If anyone ever needs to discuss the challenges of dealing with a loved one with Alzheimer's, just FMail me. The VA has many wonderful programs enabling homecare for as long as possible, including respite, equipment, and planning.

205 posted on 10/25/2002 9:10:17 PM PDT by bluesagewoman
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To: radu
Yippee!!!!!!!!!!!!! You did it!!
206 posted on 10/25/2002 9:10:17 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska
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To: Kathy in Alaska
That was fast! You didn't get pulled over by Officer Tonk?
207 posted on 10/25/2002 9:10:46 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet
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To: Kathy in Alaska
Hey Ma!! The hostages in Russia are free!! Praise be to God!
208 posted on 10/25/2002 9:10:59 PM PDT by MoJo2001
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To: LindaSOG
The Shootout at O.K. Corral
October 26, 1881

“Stormy as were the early days of Tombstone nothing ever occurred equal to the event of yesterday. Since the retirement of Ben Sippy as marshal and the appointment of V.W. Earp to fill the vacancy the town has been noted for its quietness and good order.
The fractious and much dreaded cowboys when they came to town were upon their good behavior and no unseemly brawls were indulged in, and it was hoped by our citizens that no more such deeds would occur as led to the killing of Marshal White one year ago. This time it struck with its full and awful force upon those who, heretofore, have made the good name of this county a by word and a reproach, instead of upons some officer in the discharge of his duty of a peaceable and unoffending citizen.

“Since the arrest of Stilwell and Spence for the robbery of the Bisbee stage, there have been oft repeated threats conveyed to the Earp brothers - Virgil, Wyatt, and Morgan - that the friends of the accused, or in other words the cowboys, would get even with them for the part they had taken in the pursuit and arrest of Stilwell and Spence. The active part of the Earps in going after the stage robbers, beginning with the one near Contention, has made them exceedingly obnoxious to the bad element of this country and put their lives in jeopardy every month.

“Sometime Tuesday Ike Clanton came into town and during the evening had some little talk with Doc Holliday and Marshall Earp but nothing to cause either to suspect, further than their general knowledge of the man and the threats that had previously been conveyed to the Marshal, that the gang intended to clean out the Earps, that he was thirsting for blood at this time with one exception and that as the Clanton told the Marshal, in answer to a question, that the McLaurys were in Sonora.

Shortly after this occurrence someone came to the Marshal and told him that the McLaurys had been seen a short time before just below town. Marshal Earp, now knowing what might happen and feeling his responsibility for the peace and order of the city, stayed on duty all night and added to the police force his brother Morgan and Holliday. The night passed without any disturbance whatever and at sunrise he went home and retired to rest and sleep.
A short time afterwards one of his brothers came to his house and told him that Clanton was hunting him with threats of shooting him on sight. He discredited the report and did not get out of bed. It was not long before another of his brothers came down, and told him the same thing. Whereupon he got up, dressed and went with his brother Morgan uptown.
They walked Allen Street to Fifth, crossed over to Fremont and down to Fourth, were, upon turning up Fourth toward Allen they came upon Clanton with a Winchester rifle in his hand and revolver on his hip. The marshal walked up to him, grabbed the rifle and hit him a blow on his head at the same time, stunning him so that he was able to disarm him without further trouble.
He marched Clanton off to the police court, fined Clanton $25 and costs making $27.50 altogether. This occurrence must have been about 1 o'clock in the afternoon.”
-The Tombstone Epitaph October 27, 1881







“About 2:30 I was in the barber's shop and heard of trouble between the Clantons and Earps. I went over to Hafford's Corner. I asked Virgil Earp, the marshal, what was the excitement. He said there was a lot of ____ in town looking for a fight.
He mentioned no names. I said to Earp, 'You had better disarm the crowd.' He said he would not, but give them a chance to make a fight. I said, 'It is your duty as a peace officer to disarm the parties.'
I meant any parties connected with the cowboys who had arms. Morgan Earp and Holliday were the ones I was talking to at the intersection of Allen and Fourth. Virgil Earp had a shotgun.
I saw no arms on the others. I then went down Fourth Street to the corner of Fremont and crossed to the opposite side of Fourth Street and saw Frank McLaury holding a horse and in conversation with somebody.
I told McLaury I would have to disarm him; that there was likely to be some trouble in town and I proposed to disarm everybody that had an arm. He said that he would not give up his gun that he didn't intend to have any trouble.
I insisted.
About that time I saw Ike Clanton and Tom McLaury down the street below Fly's building. I said to Frank, 'Come with me.' We went down to where Ike Clanton and Tom McLaury were standing. I said to them 'Boys, you must give me your arms,' Billy Clanton and William Claibourne, alias Billy the Kid, were also there.
Frank McLaury demurred. Ike Clanton told us he was unarmed. I put my arm around his waist and found that he was not armed. Tom McLaury pulled his coat open and showed that he was not armed. I saw five standing there and asked how many there were in their party. They said four. Claibourne said he was not one of them; that he was there wanting them to leave town.
I said, 'Boys, you must go up to the sheriff's office, lay aside your guns and stay until I get back.' I told them I was going to disarm the other party. At that time I saw the Earps and Holliday coming down the south side of Fremont Street.
They came by the post office and Bauer's shop. I mean Morgan Earp and Doc Holliday. I said to the Clanton party, 'I see them coming down; wait here; I will go up and stop them.' I walked twenty-two or twenty-three steps up the street and met them as they were coming out from under the awning at Bauer's shop and told them not to go any further, that I was there for the purpose of disarming the Clanton party.
They did not heed me. I said, 'Go back! I am not going to allow any trouble if I can help it!' They brushed past me and I turned and went with them or followed them, expostulating. When they arrived within a few feet of the Clantons and McLaurys, I heard one of them say, I think it was Wyatt Earp, 'You sons of bitches, you have been looking for a fight and now you can have it!'
About this time a voice said, 'Throw up your hands!' During this time pistols were pointed. I saw a nickel-plated pistol in particular. It was in the hands of the Earp party. I think DOc Holliday. It was pointed, I think, at Billy Clanton.
I am not certain that Holliday had it. When the order was given to 'throw up your hands,' I heard Billy Clanton say, 'don't shoot me. I don't want to fight.' At the same time Tom McLaury threw open his coad and said; 'I have nothing,' or 'I am not armed, or words to that effect, making the same remark and gesture he had previously made to me. I don't remember the position of Billy Clanton's hands.
My attention was directed on the nickel-plated pistol for a couple of seconds. The nickel-plated pistol was the first fired and almost instantaneously came two shots tight together. The first two shots could not have been fired from the same pistol. They were too close together. The nickel-plated pistol was fired by he second man from the right. After the first two or three shots were fired very rapidly the firing was general.
The first two shots were fired by the Earp party. I thought the next three shots came from the same side, but was not certain. It was only my impression. After the words, 'throw up your hands,' immediately the nickel-plated pistol went off.
I saw Frank McLaury with one hand to his belly and with his right hand shooting toward Morgan Earp. As he started across the street I heard a couple of shots from the direction in which Frank McLaury went. I looked and saw him running and a shot was fired and he went over on his head. I heard Morgan Earp say, 'I got him.' There may have been a couple of shots afterwards but that was the end of the fight. I did not see the effects of the first two shots that were fired; the only parties I saw fell were Frank McLaury and Morgan Earp.
I saw no effects from the next three shots. The first man I thought was hit was Frank McLaury. I saw him staggering and bewildered after the first five shots. I never saw any arms in the hands of any body of the McLaury or Clanton party. Frank McLaury was the first man in whose hands I saw a pistol. After the first few shots Ike Clanton broke and ran. I saw him at the corner of Fly's house running into a back building.

“When Ike Clanton broke and ran I did not know where he went. I found him afterwards in Emmanuel's building on Tough Nut Street. I saw a shotgun with Holliday before the fight commenced, as they were coming down the street. He had it under his coat.
I did not see the gun go off and if I heard it, I did not distinguish it from a pistol. I afterwards examined Billy Clanton, before he died, as he was lying in the street. After he was taken in the house all I heard him say was go away and let him die.
I saw him lying on the sidewalk and saw him when he shot Morgan Earp. A number were in the room when Billy was carried in. Dr. Giberson said it was no use to give him anything. I left before Billy Clanton died. Tom McLaury's body was in the same room”
Sheriff Johnny Behan November 2, 1881

210 posted on 10/25/2002 9:11:11 PM PDT by Valin
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To: DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet
Good evening, Duchess!! How are you?? You are looking good!! Woohoo!!
211 posted on 10/25/2002 9:11:32 PM PDT by MoJo2001
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To: Snow Bunny
It's good to BE seen.
212 posted on 10/25/2002 9:13:47 PM PDT by Valin
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To: MoJo2001
I'm doing great, MoJo!! How are you??? What tunes you got tonight? I'm ready to get this party started!
213 posted on 10/25/2002 9:14:19 PM PDT by DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet
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To: bluesagewoman
Hi Blue! It's been so long since I've seen you.
214 posted on 10/25/2002 9:15:56 PM PDT by radu
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To: Valin
Good morning, Valin!! How are you?? I'm glad you are here!! I've got to find some of those babes hanging around here. They need something to do. They are working my last nerve. Hmmmm....


215 posted on 10/25/2002 9:16:11 PM PDT by MoJo2001
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To: DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet
Cool!! I've got to load some stuff up!! Then we'll be ready to go!! That's for sure!!
216 posted on 10/25/2002 9:16:43 PM PDT by MoJo2001
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To: coteblanche; MoJo2001
This is such a great idea.. I just read it again. The troops are going to love it. Thank you BOTH of you. big smile
217 posted on 10/25/2002 9:17:47 PM PDT by Snow Bunny
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To: SAMWolf; Johnny Gage
WHAT, NO BARF ALERT? Where's Johnny with eye wash? My monitor is not pleased.
218 posted on 10/25/2002 9:18:00 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska
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To: MoJo2001
Yes, praise be to God! Did I hear that several hostages were killed before the Russians went in?


219 posted on 10/25/2002 9:18:13 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska
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To: Kathy in Alaska
Yes!! Thankyouthankyouthankyou for bearing with me today!!! I'm a little slow on the uptake sometimes or misspell a word duuuuh but I'll get the hang of this yet.
220 posted on 10/25/2002 9:19:15 PM PDT by radu
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