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i'm not bragging & it wasn't right but condoms seem to keep me clean & out of fatherhood

In other words, they facilitated your doing what wasn't right.

Imagine teachers and parents telling kids something like this:

Shoplifting is wrong and if you're caught it could hurt you for the rest of your life. But since we know that kids often do shoplift anyway, here are some handy tips on how to reduce your chances of getting caught. Now, we're not telling you to go out and shoplift. But if you do, these tips can help keep you out of jail."

It was a different time then & if you look at my previous posts I said abstinence was what I suggested to my kids, I of course omitted my romps in High School & College. Let me ask you this, if your child came to you & said Mom/Dad i'm going to have sex and I can either use a condom or not use a condom. Now assuming that they're going to have sex regardless, would you tell them A) Use a condom or B) Don't use a condom? I think that the answer is obvious, it's not the best answer but it's the better choice of the two.