[ellery]

Do you all agree that men have the same responsibility to chastity before marriage as do women?

[yendu bwam]

Do you all agree that men have the same responsibility to chastity before marriage as do women?

Fair question. As a devout Christian, I believe that I have that responsibility. But that doesn't take away the fact that many men (who may not believe they have that resonsibility) are looking for women who are chaste. You may think that's unfair. It's just a reality that many women who want to get married ignore. Most men, in my experience, don't want a wife who has 'done the rounds' with many men. I think there are good reasons for this. You may disagree.

[yendu bwam]

Also, I should add, apart from religious questions - I do happen to believe that promiscuous sex before marriage, on the part of either party, is less conducive to healthy, life-long marriages, than chastity.

[CDHart]

"Do you all agree that men have the same responsibility to chastity before marriage as do women?"

Yes.

Carolyn