[yendu bwam]

Also, I should add, apart from religious questions - I do happen to believe that promiscuous sex before marriage, on the part of either party, is less conducive to healthy, life-long marriages, than chastity.

[ellery]

I agree with you on this, with a slight twist: I don't think past promiscuous sex causes marital woes -- I think the lack of security and self-respect causes some people to be promiscuous, also causes marriage problems. Tomato, Tomahto:-)