[Bigg Red]

HLL, what's wrong with you today? The poster IS a woman, talking about HERSELF! She's calling herself a flabby 30-something.

[Hillary's Lovely Legs]

I have my eyes in backwards. I read it as " When you see that flabby woman with the kids, that she isn't the grandmom, she's the mom", but it didn't read to me that the poster was talking in the first person.

This daylights savings time has taken it's toll. I got no sleep last night and today my brain is fried. My apologies. I totally read it wrong.

[pettifogger]

Yes, I am the gal with the flab. Thanks for sticking up for me, Redd and krb. I think. :o)

I was just trying to make the point that while I "give care," I am not a "caregiver" (liberal, feel-good word for whoever is stuck with the kids today). I am the Mom. And I have the well-earned flab to prove it!