People who go out in public with their emotions on their sleeves are looking for pity, in my view.
Parents who go on television in the hope of finding their lost children should get help from the public. They should not have to cry in public to get the help.
If they don't cry, it does not neccasarily mean they are not grieving, they might just be private types.
Secondly, if anything happened to my children, I would be inconsolable. I would be a screaming, hysterical, wigging, despondent mother. I don't think I could go on TV. I wouldn't be able to mutter anything but blubbering in between sobs. My husband would have to be the strong one and speak out, but he is as emotional as me, so he probably couldn't do it either.
At any rate, just because you could be a blubbering idiot on TV when your child is dead in a ditch some where, or buried in a shallow grave, doesn't mean you want attention. Good grief! I wouldnt be able to gain composer, and I question people who can.