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WHY DIVORCE IS SO PREVALENT: The #1 Answer To Society's #1 Problem
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Posted on 12/14/2001 3:21:12 PM PST by Dr. Octagon

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To: Dr. Octagon
All I know is, the Good Father can get screwed by the court and his wife's attorney, in a community property state.
101 posted on 12/14/2001 11:44:42 PM PST by let freedom sing
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To: nopardons
Define "reverse snobbery".
102 posted on 12/14/2001 11:45:43 PM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: let freedom sing
All I know is, the Good Father can get screwed by the court and his wife's attorney, in a community property state

That is the reality of the situation. Children deserve both parents, and fathers deserve equal rights.

And fathers are not heartless ATMs, even if feminists want them considered such.

103 posted on 12/14/2001 11:48:12 PM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: onyx
Five words, counting the hyphenate as two:

End male-bashing gender bias!

104 posted on 12/14/2001 11:50:48 PM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: Dr. Octagon
Countries with a presumption of father-custody have very low divorce rates. In the current family court system, fathers are targets, and children are the weapons to be held against them...

in reality, fathers, men in other words , tend to make their children and the mothers of their children the TARGETS... or how many more times do you need to read how an angry man decided he needed to kill his children and their mother just to make a point?

Listen....let's be honest....men are the dominant species...not better....not more valuable...just the dominant gender....and with that comes RESPONSIBILITY.....a large , large portion of today's (yesterday's) evil in the world lies at the feet of men....the wars...the starvation...the enslaveing of people...this is man's doing...

oh how I wish that my gender had the smarts and the pride to not put up with it...to not become appendages to men....but that is our biology....as much as I dislike it....we are the nesters and the nuturers...we are not the ones to set cultural policy...we go along, as we have always done....

so make up all these phony-baloney evil arguements against women ...how WE are to blame...how WE want divorce...it's absurd...

I come from two living parents that have been married for over 50 years, and my hubby of 26 years has parents alive that are also married for over 50 years...we feel like we are anachromisms....

you want to stay married?...try friendship first...companionship....similar values....and it doesn't hurt to come from stock that believes in fidelity and marriage...

105 posted on 12/14/2001 11:55:51 PM PST by cherry
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To: nopardons
And I happen to be a multi-millionaire, several times over. I don't hate the rich, I am the rich.
106 posted on 12/14/2001 11:57:29 PM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: Dr. Octagon
I am female, and I agree with you!
107 posted on 12/14/2001 11:58:57 PM PST by onyx
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To: Dr. Octagon
The reason that divorce rates are so high is beccause so many people, rather than realize that the authority for their marriage is not the state but their creator, have given what is God's unto Caesar.

The state has no business or interest in marriage. Like everything else they touch, they lower standards. And yet the right is begging them to continue overseeing God's domain because a few gay people might think they have the right to get married.

108 posted on 12/15/2001 12:02:25 AM PST by Demidog
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To: cherry
I say that statistically, women initiate 2/3 of all divorces.

That's a fact, and the reason for it has been addressed at some length on this thread.

Also, the majority of infanticides, per the 1994 Justice Dept report, are commited by women. 55%.

Baby-killer Andrea Yates is being defended by Texas NOW feminists.

The family court system is anti-father.

Your post stereotypes men. Wrongly. Virtue or lack thereof is 100% irrespective of gender.

109 posted on 12/15/2001 12:04:16 AM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: onyx
Well, O.K.

What I'm for is a complete end to gender bias. It could be argued that 200 years ago, custody cases were biased in favor of men. In 2001, they are biased in favor of women. Both situations are wrong. I seek equal rights.

110 posted on 12/15/2001 12:07:31 AM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: Dr. Octagon
My reply was NOT to you . Your money doesn't seem to have helped your reading comprehension any. LOL

Arriviste, or " old money ", dear ? : - )

Since this isn't a peeing contest, I'll just leave it at that. ROTFLOL

111 posted on 12/15/2001 12:08:29 AM PST by nopardons
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To: cherry
And much of the 45% of infanticides not done by mothers are done by the post-divorce fly-by-night boyfriends theeof, per the recent Travolta movie.
112 posted on 12/15/2001 12:11:05 AM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: nopardons
Old in half, earned in half, and you might have specified to whom all that was targeted... you did come on like an AK-47 from a dewy blue sky.
113 posted on 12/15/2001 12:14:26 AM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: nopardons
Everything is such a contest! :o)
114 posted on 12/15/2001 12:15:56 AM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: Dr. Octagon
Equal rights --- no such animal. Each judge has his or her own opinion.
115 posted on 12/15/2001 12:15:57 AM PST by onyx
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Which is why they must be bound and gagged by inflexible law. Of the people, by the people, not of the judge...
116 posted on 12/15/2001 12:18:28 AM PST by Dr. Octagon
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To: Dr. Octagon
Look newbie, who hasn't even been a member here for two weeks yet, a reply is to whomever it is addressed to in the header. Was YOUR nick in the header of MY reply ? No, it was NOT ! But, that's okay, you can always butt in, if you imagine that I have trodden upon your oh so sore widdle toes.

Look at all of the male whinging / female bashing / the rich are evil posts to this thread. Historically speaking, MEN got the huse, property AND children, when there was a divorce, until quite recently. If girls and boys didn't shack up / have one night stands rior to marriage, and the culture didn't accept easy divorce, there would be less of it. If people didn't voew " relationships " of every kind, as " disposable ", today, and actually WORKED at them, there would be fewer divorces. If people didn't engage in extended adolescence, sometimes into their 50's, today, there would be fewere divorces. THIS IS NOT A SIMPLE TOPIC, NOR ONE WORTHY OF GLIB, JUVENILE REMARKS !

Reread this entire thread. Then reply to me. Oh, and IF you don't like my style ... T-O-U-G-H !

117 posted on 12/15/2001 12:25:40 AM PST by nopardons
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To: Dr. Octagon
And the solution is....?
118 posted on 12/15/2001 12:30:20 AM PST by pcl
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To: Dr. Octagon
Cases differ. One side is usually more sympathetic, and historically, and in these times of PC, the "victimized" party prevails, (the women).

No law will ever be passed that is not flexible. Thank the ACLU and the democrats for that!

119 posted on 12/15/2001 12:34:32 AM PST by onyx
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To: nopardons
And Halloween 1998 is indicative of what?

Does that make you a fellow Mensa member?

It's hard to plow through the vitriol, capital letters, and wild generalizations long enough to get to the points.

Historically speaking...anti-father liberalized divorce has been instituted for 30+ years. Look at what has happened to society in the exact same time pereiod: crime, teen pregnancy, drugs...

The time periods don't coincide coincidentally.

It's cause and effect.

120 posted on 12/15/2001 12:35:48 AM PST by Dr. Octagon
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