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FReeper Canteen ~ Sunday Chapel ~ CELEBRATING THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS ~ 13 September 2026
Serving The Best Troops and Veterans In The World !! | The Canteen Crew

Posted on 09/12/2026 6:01:11 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska


 


 

 

CELEBRATING THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS

"Anybody can sympathize with the sufferings of a friend,
but it requires a very fine nature to sympathize with a friend's success."
-Oscar Wilde

It is natural and understandable to feel pangs of envy when we see someone else get promoted while we may have not been; or to see someone else get a NAM and we were not recognized for our hard work. It is human.

Life is full of many disappointments large and small, and it is tough to accept that others may enjoy greater fortune when we are equally deserving. How can we deal with such feelings of envy? First, it is essential to recognize that envy is an emotion that can be good or bad. "Good" envy can motivate us to keep on trying, never to give up the fight. "Bad" envy can lead a person to do harmful things to themselves or to others. It can eat away at one's inner well-being and leave a person an emotional, bitter wreck. Envy created the first murderer, Cain, who killed his brother Abel in a fit of jealousy.

Second, we each need to consider the blessings we enjoy, not to dwell on the things we don't have. When I was aboard the USS THEODORE ROOSEVELT in an ethics class, we'd take a large overhead chart with a clean sheet of paper and make a dot in the center of the page with magic marker. Then we'd ask the students what they saw. They'd all say, a dot, of course. Then we'd tell them: here is this big paper, and you say all you see is the tiny dot?!!?! We must look at everything we have, not just the one or two things we feel are missing from our lives.

Yes, it is hard to feel happy when others "succeed" where we have "failed", but we must never give up, nor allow ourselves to become bitter. Consider the example of my friend, a fellow Chaplain, who applied for commission as a Naval officer three times and was rejected each time. On his fourth try he was accepted and is now a distinguished member of the Chaplain Corps. Remember, when you feel at the end of your rope, make a knot and hang on!




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1 posted on 09/12/2026 6:01:11 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska
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To: Kathy in Alaska; luvie; HiJinx; AZamericonnie; laurenmarlowe; Jet Jaguar; beachn4fun; MS.BEHAVIN; ..

Greetings to all at the Canteen!

To all our military men and women, past and present,

THANK YOU
for your service!


2 posted on 09/12/2026 6:04:23 PM PDT by radu (God bless our military men and women, past and present)
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Howdy, Kathy.

Not very pretty up there earlier today but that’s changed. Nice and sunny now, though it’s cloudy over the mountains.

Hope you’ve had a kicked-back day. I have.


3 posted on 09/12/2026 6:08:14 PM PDT by radu (God bless our military men and women, past and present)
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Hi Everybody!

(((HUGS)))

Have a Blessed Sunday.


4 posted on 09/12/2026 6:12:38 PM PDT by left that other site ( For the Lord is our judge, the Lord is our lawgiver, the Lord is our king; He will save us Is.33:2h)
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To: lightman; xzins; bethelgrad; LiteKeeper; MoJo2001; 2111USMC; abner; acad1228; advance_copy; ...
Please join us for Sunday Chapel ~ CELEBRATING THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS, and Liberty

Lt. Charles F. Suver, CHC, USN, 28th Marine Regiment, 5th Marine Division
"Mass at Iwo Jima"


Please stop in and say a prayer of protection for the military.
Prayers from all denominations are needed.




Sunday Liberty starts after the Guest Military Chaplain's Service!


5 posted on 09/12/2026 6:41:17 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Hi Kathy!

I finally got a new computer.

Still getting used to it, but I think it will work out.

Have a Blessed Sunday.

(((HUGS)))


6 posted on 09/12/2026 6:44:03 PM PDT by left that other site ( For the Lord is our judge, the Lord is our lawgiver, the Lord is our king; He will save us Is.33:2h)
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To: radu

Good evening, radu, and a Blessed Lord’s Day to you and yours.

Still hot? Mowing done?


7 posted on 09/12/2026 6:51:42 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: radu

Spent a little time out communing with the ducks. Several are always crabby for no reason.


8 posted on 09/12/2026 6:59:13 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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Good evenng, ML...((HUGS))...a Blessed Lord’s Day and Shavua Tov to you and yours.

Blue weather?


9 posted on 09/12/2026 7:09:56 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: All


Dear God:
I ask that no Airman, Coast Guardsman,
Marine, Sailor, Soldier, Reservist, National Guardsman, or Merchant Marine
feel alone or forgotten.

O Israel, hope in the Lord;
For with the Lord there is loving kindness,
And with Him is abundant redemption.
And He will redeem Israel
From all his iniquities.

Psalm 130:7 & 8


10 posted on 09/12/2026 7:11:03 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: MoochPooch; left that other site; SkyDancer; ExTexasRedhead; KittenClaws; hoagy62; cowboyusa; ...

Shavua Tov.
Wishing all our Jewish troops, veterans, families, allies, friends, and Canteeners
a peaceful and prosperous week.


11 posted on 09/12/2026 7:12:50 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: MoJo2001; PROCON; left that other site; radu; lightman; luvie; Allegra; SkyDancer; ...

Prayers for our troops, veterans, families, allies, friends, and Canteeners
for a safe and peaceful week ahead.



12 posted on 09/12/2026 7:14:10 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska

I spent the entire day hooking up my new computer.

I’m still working on it, and it’s after 10:00PM here.

It was perfect Blue Weather, and I didn’t get to ride at all.

Maybe tomorrow.


13 posted on 09/12/2026 7:15:38 PM PDT by left that other site ( For the Lord is our judge, the Lord is our lawgiver, the Lord is our king; He will save us Is.33:2h)
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To: MoochPooch; left that other site; SkyDancer; ExTexasRedhead; KittenClaws; hoagy62; cowboyusa; ...
Extra prayers for Israel...

He Who blessed our forefathers Abraham, Isaac and Jacob - may He bless the fighters of the Israel Defense Force, who stand guard over our land and the cities of our G-d from the border of the Lebanon to the desert of Egypt, and from the Great Sea unto the approach of the Aravah, on the land, in the air, and on the sea.

May HASHEM cause the enemies who rise up against us to be struck down before them. May the Holy One, Blessed is He, preserve and rescue our fighting men from every trouble and distress and from every plague and illness, and may He send blessing and success in their every endeavor.

May He lead our enemies under their sway and may He grant them salvation and crown them with victory. And may there be fulfilled for them the verse: For it is Hashem, your G-d, Who goes with you to battle your enemies for you to save you.

G-d bless and keep your children safe, Alouette.


14 posted on 09/12/2026 7:16:03 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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God Bless our military men and women who have given their all.

Thanks, unique.


15 posted on 09/12/2026 7:17:55 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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WOOHOO! Congratulations on the new computer!!

Hope it does everything you need it to do.

((HUGS))


16 posted on 09/12/2026 7:19:53 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Finally! (Right?)


17 posted on 09/12/2026 7:23:11 PM PDT by left that other site ( For the Lord is our judge, the Lord is our lawgiver, the Lord is our king; He will save us Is.33:2h)
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To: left that other site

Fingers crossed for tomorrow....and finishing up your computer hook ups.


18 posted on 09/12/2026 7:24:23 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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To: Kathy in Alaska

Thanks! I appreciate it. 😀


19 posted on 09/12/2026 7:26:18 PM PDT by left that other site ( For the Lord is our judge, the Lord is our lawgiver, the Lord is our king; He will save us Is.33:2h)
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20 posted on 09/12/2026 7:36:43 PM PDT by Kathy in Alaska ((~RIP Brian...the Coast Guard lost a good one.~))
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