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Why So Many Women Are Rethinking Motherhood in 2026—and It’s Not Just About Money
Yahoo ^ | 1 July 2026 | Jamie. Ducharme

Posted on 07/02/2026 11:01:49 AM PDT by Rummyfan

OLIVIA SLEDZIK VIVIDLY remembers clutching her phone in bed at midnight, crying and desperately searching the Internet for reassurance. "Do other people feel like this?" she wondered. "Why do I feel so scared?" Sledzik, who is 35 and lives in Rhode Island, was terrified of getting pregnant and having a baby—and during that late-night doomscroll a few years ago, she felt alone in her fear. This wasn't your run-of-the-mill "I'm anxious about becoming a parent" fear; it felt insurmountable.

For a long time, Sledzik assumed she'd have kids. After she graduated from college, though, she began having second thoughts—in large part because she developed a phobia of vomiting that made morning sickness sound unbearable.

After Sledzik married her husband, in 2019, the idea of starting a family began to feel more natural again. But the pandemic hit, and they shelved the conversation. By the time the world reopened, Sledzik felt completely torn. She wanted a baby with the man she loved, but she also couldn't shake her fears about virtually every step of the process, from pregnancy all the way up to actually becoming a mom.

(Excerpt) Read more at health.yahoo.com ...


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“Of course, there’s nothing wrong with deciding not to have kids, says Merle Bombardieri, MSW, LICSW, a parenthood decision-making coach who has specialized in this topic for 40 years. But some women are held prisoner by their anxiety and information overload, opting out of motherhood not because they don’t want kids but because they’re too afraid and overwhelmed.”

A First World twenty-first century issue. If you want to have a child, have it. If you don't, don't. But I think you are missing one of the great and rewarding adventures in life.

...Merle Bombardieri, MSW, LICSW, a parenthood decision-making coach ...

Who knew there was even such a profession?! Are all women crazy? !

1 posted on 07/02/2026 11:01:49 AM PDT by Rummyfan
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To: Rummyfan

I’m sure there have always been frightened or neurotic women. We just have specialists for all kinds of things now where we didn’t before.


2 posted on 07/02/2026 11:04:41 AM PDT by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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To: Rummyfan
Natural selection in action.

Behavioral traits are being weeded out.

3 posted on 07/02/2026 11:04:48 AM PDT by Salman (We need to proceed as if the system were completely broken, because it is. )
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To: Rummyfan

“parenthood decision-making coach”

An AI could definitely handle that job.

Lol.


4 posted on 07/02/2026 11:05:51 AM PDT by cgbg (Four seconds is all it takes to beat the brainwashing.)
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To: Rummyfan
Rhode Island. New England. Northeast. Brain dead. All of 'em.

5 posted on 07/02/2026 11:06:03 AM PDT by Governor Dinwiddie ( O give thanks unto the Lord, for He is gracious, and his mercy endures forever. — Psalm 106)
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To: Rummyfan

if she is a liberal (which she almsot certainly is) I hope she decides not to have a child.

We need to weed liberal DNA out of the genepool


6 posted on 07/02/2026 11:06:49 AM PDT by TexasFreeper2009
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To: Rummyfan

White women will lead to the extinction of the human species. In all other species, procreation is primal, evolutionary and the main goal.


7 posted on 07/02/2026 11:07:06 AM PDT by sunny bonobo
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To: Rummyfan

We don’t have first world problems any more since we have the third world here. Now we have third world problems.


8 posted on 07/02/2026 11:07:27 AM PDT by webheart (Notice how I said all of that without any hyphens, and only complete words?)
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To: Rummyfan

Another example of fear porn controlling people’s lives. Fill people with all the reasons not to have kids when all those reasons put together make 1% of the reasons not to have them.


9 posted on 07/02/2026 11:08:02 AM PDT by Resolute Conservative
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To: Rummyfan

No, just the ones who go to a “parenthood decision-making coach”.
This woman is 35, human fertility starts dropping at age 25. She may have nothing to worry about.


10 posted on 07/02/2026 11:09:18 AM PDT by Varda
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To: Rummyfan

“ Are all women crazy?”

Every woman is at least a 4 crazy.

https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg?si=Ms-SsktFk2wrDhxD

L


11 posted on 07/02/2026 11:09:40 AM PDT by Lurker ( Peaceful coexistence with the Left is not possible. Stop pretending that it is. LOL l)
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To: Rummyfan

Aren’t public schools supposed to prepare people for when they are adults?

What exactly do they teach in “health class” other than being a homo is OK, natural and normal?

As a nation, race, religion, family, organism, we cease to exist if we do not reproduce.

Our species has been reproducing for 300,000 years: https://humanorigins.si.edu/evidence/human-fossils/species/homo-sapiens

That’s 8,571 generations!

And today, the most highly educated and best informed people in history, are scared, confused, and need a counselor to help them navigate their feelings surrounding pregnancy. Really?


12 posted on 07/02/2026 11:12:09 AM PDT by Red6
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To: Rummyfan

Genesis Judgement.

When Eve went in to Satan himself.

Genesis 3:16 📜

_To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”

New Living Translation
“Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.”

English Standard Version
To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.”


13 posted on 07/02/2026 11:17:07 AM PDT by Varsity Flight ( "War by 🙏 the prophesies set before you." ) I Timothy 1:18. Nazarite warriors. 10.5.6.5 These Days)
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... the most highly educated and best informed people in history, are scared, confused, and need a counselor to help them navigate their feelings surrounding pregnancy. Really?

Apparently so.

14 posted on 07/02/2026 11:17:32 AM PDT by Rummyfan (Ok In anyq war between the civilized man and the savage, support lthe civilized man.👨 so t tv)
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To: Rummyfan; lightman; Navy Patriot

.......SLEDZIK, WHO UNEXPECTEDLY became pregnant in 2023 and is now mom to a “perfect angel” son, has some straightforward advice for women struggling with pregnancy and motherhood fears: “Get off TikTok. Get off Instagram.......,

You betcha! TikTok and Instagram are our enemies! If it wren’t for our mothers—and for our foremothers going back to the Paleolithic—there would be no humans!!


15 posted on 07/02/2026 11:21:41 AM PDT by Honorary Serb (Kosovo is Serbia! Free Srpska! Abolish ICTY!)
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To: Rummyfan
Read the whole article. The story does have a happy ending.

SLEDZIK, WHO UNEXPECTEDLY became pregnant in 2023 and is now mom to a "perfect angel" son, has some straightforward advice for women struggling with pregnancy and motherhood fears: "Get off TikTok. Get off Instagram. Or at least curate your feed so it's stuff that's fun and silly as opposed to stuff that feels really daunting and really unsettling." Remember, women have been doing this since the dawn of time—with far less information—and most of the time, things turned out okay. You probably don't need to follow the perinatal nutritional advice coming from an IG mom or follow a questionable anti–stretch mark skin regimen from your favorite influencer.

16 posted on 07/02/2026 11:22:20 AM PDT by Flatus I. Maximus (It's time to stop pretending you can get along with liberals. They hate you and want to kill you. )
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📜 Cain, the Murderer. Seed war. Satan vs. Adam

New Living Translation
Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant. When she gave birth to Cain, she said, “With the LORD’s help, I have produced a man!”

English Standard Version
Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the LORD.”

Berean Standard Bible
And Adam had relations with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain. “With the help of the LORD I have brought


17 posted on 07/02/2026 11:22:25 AM PDT by Varsity Flight ( "War by 🙏 the prophesies set before you." ) I Timothy 1:18. Nazarite warriors. 10.5.6.5 These Days)
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To: Rummyfan
(P)arenthood decision-making coach

Isn't that what bartenders are for?

18 posted on 07/02/2026 11:33:13 AM PDT by Mr. Lucky (⁰led)
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To: Rummyfan

these are some super special neurotic women and frankly maybe they Should not reproduce.
What a mental case.


19 posted on 07/02/2026 11:34:46 AM PDT by ronniesgal (can FR please get a "like" button and a "block" button? Please.)
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To: sunny bonobo

Yup, birth rates are down all over, but some groups a lot more than others.
are Somalian women rethinking motherhood?
are Haitian women rethinking motherhood?
are ‘Palestinian’ women rethinking motherhood?

Those groups have no problem knocking out kid after kid. And that will be our undoing.


20 posted on 07/02/2026 11:39:27 AM PDT by lado
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