Posted on 07/02/2026 11:01:49 AM PDT by Rummyfan
OLIVIA SLEDZIK VIVIDLY remembers clutching her phone in bed at midnight, crying and desperately searching the Internet for reassurance. "Do other people feel like this?" she wondered. "Why do I feel so scared?" Sledzik, who is 35 and lives in Rhode Island, was terrified of getting pregnant and having a baby—and during that late-night doomscroll a few years ago, she felt alone in her fear. This wasn't your run-of-the-mill "I'm anxious about becoming a parent" fear; it felt insurmountable.
For a long time, Sledzik assumed she'd have kids. After she graduated from college, though, she began having second thoughts—in large part because she developed a phobia of vomiting that made morning sickness sound unbearable.
After Sledzik married her husband, in 2019, the idea of starting a family began to feel more natural again. But the pandemic hit, and they shelved the conversation. By the time the world reopened, Sledzik felt completely torn. She wanted a baby with the man she loved, but she also couldn't shake her fears about virtually every step of the process, from pregnancy all the way up to actually becoming a mom.
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A First World twenty-first century issue. If you want to have a child, have it. If you don't, don't. But I think you are missing one of the great and rewarding adventures in life.
...Merle Bombardieri, MSW, LICSW, a parenthood decision-making coach ...
Who knew there was even such a profession?! Are all women crazy? !
I’m sure there have always been frightened or neurotic women. We just have specialists for all kinds of things now where we didn’t before.
Behavioral traits are being weeded out.
“parenthood decision-making coach”
An AI could definitely handle that job.
Lol.
if she is a liberal (which she almsot certainly is) I hope she decides not to have a child.
We need to weed liberal DNA out of the genepool
White women will lead to the extinction of the human species. In all other species, procreation is primal, evolutionary and the main goal.
We don’t have first world problems any more since we have the third world here. Now we have third world problems.
Another example of fear porn controlling people’s lives. Fill people with all the reasons not to have kids when all those reasons put together make 1% of the reasons not to have them.
No, just the ones who go to a “parenthood decision-making coach”.
This woman is 35, human fertility starts dropping at age 25. She may have nothing to worry about.
“ Are all women crazy?”
Every woman is at least a 4 crazy.
https://youtu.be/pInk1rV2VEg?si=Ms-SsktFk2wrDhxD
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Aren’t public schools supposed to prepare people for when they are adults?
What exactly do they teach in “health class” other than being a homo is OK, natural and normal?
As a nation, race, religion, family, organism, we cease to exist if we do not reproduce.
Our species has been reproducing for 300,000 years: https://humanorigins.si.edu/evidence/human-fossils/species/homo-sapiens
That’s 8,571 generations!
And today, the most highly educated and best informed people in history, are scared, confused, and need a counselor to help them navigate their feelings surrounding pregnancy. Really?
Genesis Judgement.
When Eve went in to Satan himself.
Genesis 3:16 📜
_To the woman he said, “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe; with painful labor you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”
New Living Translation
“Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.”
English Standard Version
To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.”
Apparently so.
.......SLEDZIK, WHO UNEXPECTEDLY became pregnant in 2023 and is now mom to a “perfect angel” son, has some straightforward advice for women struggling with pregnancy and motherhood fears: “Get off TikTok. Get off Instagram.......,
You betcha! TikTok and Instagram are our enemies! If it wren’t for our mothers—and for our foremothers going back to the Paleolithic—there would be no humans!!
SLEDZIK, WHO UNEXPECTEDLY became pregnant in 2023 and is now mom to a "perfect angel" son, has some straightforward advice for women struggling with pregnancy and motherhood fears: "Get off TikTok. Get off Instagram. Or at least curate your feed so it's stuff that's fun and silly as opposed to stuff that feels really daunting and really unsettling." Remember, women have been doing this since the dawn of time—with far less information—and most of the time, things turned out okay. You probably don't need to follow the perinatal nutritional advice coming from an IG mom or follow a questionable anti–stretch mark skin regimen from your favorite influencer.
📜 Cain, the Murderer. Seed war. Satan vs. Adam
New Living Translation
Now Adam had sexual relations with his wife, Eve, and she became pregnant. When she gave birth to Cain, she said, “With the LORD’s help, I have produced a man!”
English Standard Version
Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived and bore Cain, saying, “I have gotten a man with the help of the LORD.”
Berean Standard Bible
And Adam had relations with his wife Eve, and she conceived and gave birth to Cain. “With the help of the LORD I have brought
Isn't that what bartenders are for?
these are some super special neurotic women and frankly maybe they Should not reproduce.
What a mental case.
Yup, birth rates are down all over, but some groups a lot more than others.
are Somalian women rethinking motherhood?
are Haitian women rethinking motherhood?
are ‘Palestinian’ women rethinking motherhood?
Those groups have no problem knocking out kid after kid. And that will be our undoing.
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