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How a Teen Locker Room Butt Slap Triggered a 2-Year Investigation
Reason ^ | January 3, 2024 | Emma Camp

Posted on 01/05/2024 7:04:47 AM PST by Twotone

A teenage swimmer is facing a Kafkaesque sexual misconduct investigation over allegations that he slapped another swimmer on the butt as a middle schooler.

According to a story in the Associated Press (A.P.), an organization designed to protect athletes from horrific abuse has devolved into a bureaucratic nightmare for others, who can find themselves dragged into opaque investigations over minor allegations of wrongdoing.

"I think the guilty-until-proven-innocent aspect is what bothers me the most, because right now, he's still [considered] guilty until the case is finalized," the teenager's mother told A.P.

The U.S. Center for SafeSport is a nonprofit organization established in 2017 after sports physician Larry Nassar's sexual abuse of hundreds of gymnasts sparked outrage over how the case was handled by athletic organizations. SafeSport now has the authority to investigate allegations of abuse and hand down sanctions in dozens of sports.

According to A.P., a 13-year-old competitive swimmer, who was not named in the story, received an email from SafeSport last year informing him that "between approximately 2019 and 2022, [he] allegedly engaged in a pattern of behavior which constitutes Sexual Misconduct." Despite the ominous email, the teenager wouldn't be informed of the actual allegations against him until three months later, eventually learning that he had been accused of slapping a teammate's behind in a locker room in June 2021, nearly a year earlier.

The teenager and his mother claimed that the boy and the teammates who accused him had a falling out, and had lobbied claims of bullying at each other. However, this apparent dispute had been seemingly resolved by the boys' school and coaches.

A.P. reports that the investigation has now dragged on for nearly two years, with little indication of ending soon. The family says they've reached out to SafeSport multiple times for updates on the investigation, only to receive vague responses. According to A.P., a glut of complaints may explain the delay. SafeSport has received 7,000 allegations as of 2023, and a spokesperson told A.P. that "the center needs more financial resources to support the growing number of reports," adding that SafeSport uses a "lower standard of proof … which at times allows it to act on cases law enforcement may not."

Another factor for the delay? The teenager denies the accusations against him. The boy says he was told that the easiest way to resolve the complaint would be to agree to an "informal resolution" that would allow him to go back to swimming after a six-month probation, provided he admitted guilt.

"We asked my son, 'Are you OK with this?'" the boy's mother told A.P. "And he said 'No, I'm not going to admit to something I didn't do.'"

In the meantime, the teenager says his budding swimming career has faced major setbacks. While under investigation, the teen was required to be chaperoned on the pool deck of several USA Swimming events. At one event in November, the teenager's mother "briefly turned away" from her son. As a result, the teenager was "approached by a meet referee who notified him he was breaking the rules and wouldn't be allowed to come back for the second day of the competition," according to A.P. "That deprived the teen of swimming in his best event, where he had previously swam times that could've qualified him for a key junior national meet in December."

While organizations like SafeSport exist to fulfill a noble goal—protecting athletes from horrific abuse at the hands of powerful individuals within elite sports—the case of this teenager shows what can happen when these systems become opaque and all-powerful, providing almost no due process for the accused. The result is nothing short of a bureaucratic nightmare with little hope of due process for those accused of wrongdoing, no matter how slight.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: education; investigation
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1 posted on 01/05/2024 7:04:47 AM PST by Twotone
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To: Twotone

I guess he won’t be long before we start “investigating” everybody to find out what they did to avoid the abortionist’s snips and slide out the front door.


2 posted on 01/05/2024 7:07:30 AM PST by FlingWingFlyer (America!Biden has turned what was one of the greatest documentaries into a one season retard sitcom.)
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To: Twotone

I’m guessing this means the time honored tradition of snapping wet towels at each other in the locker room is now forbidden.

That could get a little painful as I recall.


3 posted on 01/05/2024 7:22:32 AM PST by ChildOfThe60s ("If you can remember the 60s....you weren't really there")
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To: Twotone

These types of organizations always end up corrupt and lose their way. Oh, and surprise surprise, they “need” more money to continue their harassment.


4 posted on 01/05/2024 7:25:18 AM PST by subterfuge (I'm a pure-blood!)
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To: Twotone
"...an organization designed to protect athletes from horrific abuse..."

A butt slap sounds pretty horrific. I, personally, would never recover from that.

5 posted on 01/05/2024 7:28:36 AM PST by moovova ("The NEXT election is the most important election of our lifetimes!“ LOL...)
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To: ChildOfThe60s

“That could get a little painful as I recall.”

When I was in HS in the ‘60s, a coach of mine put a stop to towel-snapping by telling us that (”true story, not a joke”) a ballplayer had his nutsack split open by a snap-towel.


6 posted on 01/05/2024 7:31:56 AM PST by Migraine
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To: Twotone

He needs to let his hair grow then join the girls swim team. They don’t dare to pursue the investigation then.

EC


7 posted on 01/05/2024 7:34:47 AM PST by Ex-Con777
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To: Migraine
a ballplayer had his nutsack split open

Everyone knows that story. That's where the saying "My nards!" came from.

8 posted on 01/05/2024 7:35:13 AM PST by Sirius Lee (Next week on The Bickersons...)
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To: Twotone

There is butt slapping at football games. And no investigations.


9 posted on 01/05/2024 7:35:16 AM PST by I want the USA back (Delusionary people should not be given power over normal people.)
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To: Twotone

I would flood this org every time a tranny shows up in the locker room.


10 posted on 01/05/2024 7:35:22 AM PST by DouglasKC
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To: Twotone

It’s not a “noble goal”; it’s a power grab.


11 posted on 01/05/2024 7:46:40 AM PST by Ge0ffrey
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To: Twotone
So this couldn't have been stopped by the coach yelling "Ladies, quit playing grab ass, get dressed and get out here."
12 posted on 01/05/2024 8:10:06 AM PST by KarlInOhio (Democrats' version of MAGA: Making America the Gulag Archipelago. Now with "Formal Deprogramming")
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To: Twotone

WHAT IS THE PUNISHMENT FOR SNAPPING WET TOWELS AT EACH OTHER???


13 posted on 01/05/2024 8:10:27 AM PST by ridesthemiles
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To: Twotone

After reading the first sentence, I looked to see if it was the Babylon Bee.


14 posted on 01/05/2024 8:23:21 AM PST by odawg
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To: Twotone

SafeSport USA is a privately held concern.
If a student receives a letter informing him/her of an investigation, get a lawyer and file a Protective Order against them.

Harrassment and threats.


15 posted on 01/05/2024 8:28:06 AM PST by Cletus.D.Yokel (When I say "We" I speak of, -not for-, "We the People")
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To: moovova

I still haven’t. Just wait till the O.B. who delivered me hears from my lawyer.


16 posted on 01/05/2024 8:48:33 AM PST by lastchance (Cognovit Dominus qui sunt eius.)
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Nice! 😎👍


17 posted on 01/05/2024 9:04:36 AM PST by moovova ("The NEXT election is the most important election of our lifetimes!“ LOL...)
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To: ChildOfThe60s

The entire institution of juvenile male horseplay is in danger of being forbidden.


18 posted on 01/05/2024 9:04:41 AM PST by Jamestown1630 ("A Republic, if you can keep it.")
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19 posted on 01/05/2024 9:46:43 AM PST by SunkenCiv (Putin should skip ahead to where he kills himself in the bunker.)
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To: Migraine

Ohhh, painful


20 posted on 01/05/2024 3:47:41 PM PST by ChildOfThe60s ("If you can remember the 60s....you weren't really there")
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