I also believe, at the same time, it is perfectly ok to see Ukraine as the innocent/invaded country, but stop at that and not want one dime to go to them and to ignore the hero-worship of their leader.
It's sort of like reading about a Dave Grohl and Courtney Love fighting about Kurt. Grohl was the third most talented guy in Nirvana and, like Yoko, has built a grand life atop a corpse (now two corpses). Courtney at least loved and married Cobain but she's a hot mess. Next!
To ignore the Obama/Biden/Nuland inspired 2014 Maidan color revolution, with the accompanying Kiev artillery shelling of the Donbass, is to willfully remain ignorant to world affairs. For this you get a gold star.