That's OK, I pity and detest people who due to fear or cowardice, or a desire to promote some US specific policy goals choose to ally themselves with an evil tyrant who has launched a campaign of terror, murder, rape, theft and destruction against another nation and its people.
Not liking excess spending by our government is a strange reason to support a government which is our sworn enemy and seeks our destruction.
Supporting Ukraine's fight against Russia's invasion keeps us out of the war that will result if Russia's desires to expand are not checked.
Your fear of nuclear war has you paralyzed with fear. That mindset of cowardice is just what nuclear armed tyrants want to see. You'll surrender to a threat from Kim Jong-un, of Iran in a few years.
The only risk of nuclear war is Putin getting crazier than he already is.
But caving in to nuclear blackmail and not protecting Ukraine, which voluntarily gave up the worlds 3rd largest nuclear arsenal, will inevitably lead to every nation getting nuclear weapons. And then your fear will become a reality.
Your country is BROKe!
What part of BROKE you do not understand?