Posted on 10/09/2020 2:33:40 PM PDT by Ennis85
THOSE doing their Christmas shopping earlier this year might be pleased to know that they can now buy merchandise featuring the viral catchphrase from Wednesdays vice-presidential debate.
Im speaking Kamala Harriss firm response to Mike Pences interjections now appears on T-shirts, hoodies and mugs.
There were several memorable moments as the two candidates went head-to-head, yet those two words cut through the noise and resonated with women everywhere.
By the end of the debate, Im speaking was trending on Twitter and saved for posterity in meme form.
Thousands of women took to social media to celebrate Ms Harriss rebuke. They know what its like to be talked over during a meeting and they felt empowered by a woman who refused to back down.
They know what its like to wonder if the audio on Zoom is not working and they felt inspired by a woman who fought to have her voice heard.
Mr Pences repeated interruptions reminded them of their day-to-day experiences in the workplace. This is every woman in a meeting ever, said hundreds of women on Twitter, who were clearly used to being talked over by their male colleagues.
Its worth noting that the phenomenon of men interrupting women was a talking point long before the vice-presidential debate. Several studies suggest that women are more likely to be interrupted than men, while women who interrupt are more likely to be viewed as rude and unfriendly.
The debate between Ms Harris and Mr Pence drew attention to the issue, but it also established a fairly straightforward solution: we can complain about being interrupted by men in the workplace, or we can set some boundaries, add some assertive phrases to our arsenal and make sure our point is heard.
Personally speaking, I dont believe that men unnecessarily and unfairly interrupt women. However, I do believe that men have an invisible advantage in the workplace, and this advantage often comes to the fore in meetings.
Men are more likely than women to have competitive sports experience, thus they have more experience of being assertive in group situations and taking advantage of a defensive gap or a conversational pause.
In the world of dating, they are more likely to make the first move and, thus, deal with the fear of rejection.
Yes, things are changing rapidly, but for now at least, men simply have more experience of putting themselves forward and not backing down.
Women, on the other hand, have been taught not to interrupt.
Somewhere along the way, we got the memo that its impolite to talk over someone and downright rude to keep on talking when were interrupted.
Thats probably why Harriss Im speaking reminders were wide-eyed and simpering.
She knows that female assertiveness can be perceived as aggressiveness, hence the Miss America smile.
Many of the women who took to social media yesterday morning felt like they were watching a masterclass on how to handle interruption.
Yet we should be careful about holding this up as a best-in-class example.
Harriss fake smile was the equivalent of softening an assertive email with the word just or ending a passiveaggressive email with xxx.
It might be an unpopular opinion, but I much preferred Mr Pences reply when Ms Harris interrupted him.
If I may finish, is less combative and more to the point (and it makes me feel like senior counsel whenever I have the gumption to say it).
Likewise, we should be careful about heralding this as a girl-power moment.
Ms Harriss response may have encouraged thousands of women to find their voice, but she found her own voice a long time ago.
In the former prosecutors own words, she has taken on everything from transnational criminal organisations to the big banks that were taking advantage of homeowners.
She was never going to back down.
Perhaps the biggest takeaway from the vicepresidential debate is the importance of preparation.
Joe Bidens will you shut up, man? marked a particularly low moment and it was clear that both candidates came armed with stock phrases to handle interruptions this time around.
They wrote the words down on paper, they said them out loud.
They probably mouthed them in the mirror before they went on stage. They thought long and hard about how they would deal with interruption and now, after Ms Harriss performance, women all over the world are doing the very same.
And she looked like she was sucking a lemon through a garden hose when she said it
This woman doesn’t agree. Heels-Up Harris is terrible.
Men have “an invisible advantage”? Such hogwash!
If you want to play with
the boys, girlfriend quit whining and bring your A Game. Or get off the field.
“Most women I know have no trouble making their voice heard.”
That’s what I was thinking. These days, women seem to be much more aggressive in a rude way than men are. Sadly.
“””””””’And it rubbed every man the wrong way. Shes every mans ex wife.”””””””””
My wife had never heard her speak so she watched the debate.
She turned it off within 10 minutes. She could not stand her.
Yep
Western women are offended over everything.
No wonder younger men want nothing to do with them. Wait until the sex robots are perfected. Real women will be told to eff off by men.
Glad I have a 1961 model. Best thing I ever did was to marry that woman but even she says Western women have lost it.
I wish Pence had said, “Stop nagging!” That would have resonated with men everywhere!
I don’t believe that is true unless you are a Biden and Harris voter. Kamala is a hack who is only anyone because of her affair with Willie brown. She is not very smart or articulate
for that matter and she is very condescending.
There, fixed it.
The best of the Irish was shipped off to America centuries ago.
Its epic.
:-D
She is the kind of woman they want to sleep with their husband..
Actually, a whiny insecure woman who resorts to mansplaining...
“We now know Donald Trump owes and is in debt for $400 million and just so everyone is clear, when we say in debt, it means you owe money to somebody,” Harris said (during the debate.
“They know what its like to be talked over during a meeting and they felt empowered by a woman who refused to back down.”
“felt empowered” ????
Who really believes women are so weak that it requires a bitchy woman acting like a bitch to cause them to grow a backbone?
I have never met a woman of that type.
Drudge poll, Pence won 71 / 29 so the girls must have been told they were insulted.
The Cultural Marxist Identity Politics Card is now being pulled. Expect it to be a ploy to pull in the white suburban women.
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